SHARING OUR FINANCE IN MARRIAGE, IT IS WRONG? (LOH #145)

Hello ladies. Happy new month to all of you out there. I am happy to see the new month and I am sure you are too.
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Thanks alot to @merit.ahama for this week's prompt. We have such a great topic which I believe that has coursed so many problem in marriages. Not just problem but it has also made some families to go their separate ways.

I believe that money should not be a problem in the family. For us to have a joint account like @princessbusayo said, all depends. Some men are too stringy even with their own money not to talk about when they have your own money with them.

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If we have an understanding together, then we are good to go. The woman should also take her time to study the kind of husband that she is married to. When you give your money to some men, they won't even allow you buy cream for yourself. You won't get the chance to even help your family members. I believe that we should be very careful with that. The woman came from a family. She was not picked from a waste bin. Her family needs some care.

Sharing my money with the man is not a problem for me. But I must also be put in the agenda when using the money. If I monitor him and he is the type that when he get hold of my money, he will forget about me, then I will be wiser next time.
@marynn also talk about it extensively. Men are not supposed to be afraid of helping their wives become rich. In fact, if she gets Richer it is for the benefit of the family.
In conclusion, the man and the woman is one, they should be able to share their money together. But when one person is making use of all the money and forget about the second partner. Ladies be wise, share everything when it is safe, but when it is not, you need to be wise.

I invite @hivedeb to participate in this week prompt.