What are friends are for? LOH contest #192
Good day everyone. I hope your all in good mood. It's been a while since I last posted.😬
How much does friendship mean to you? Can you make new friends easily?
Being an introvert, I don't really have a lot of close friends to be exact. Even before when I was still studying. I can count them with my fingers. I know friends are important in our life for we need someone to talk to, hang out with and do things that sometimes we cannot do with our family. Share our thoughts and do things that only girls understand.
As for me, I don't really need that much. I'm ok with few of them. I always keep my circle small. I might hang out with some people that I meet along the way, but it would take time to gain my trust. Since I was once betrayed by a friend whom I treated as a sister. We were neighbours back then and I never think that people like her exist that time. (Even counterfeit bills never in my mind that it exist, until I was charged for accepting fake bills, Deducted from my salary😣.)I was naive that time that I failed to notice. Maybe until now😬. Sometimes I'm still blur in my surroundings and seems like floating. Since that betrayal, I learnt to choose friends whom I can trust. Friends come and go, people change and feelings fade. Sometimes I wonder how that person that were once close to me yesterday, became a stranger today. As time passed by I understand and learn to move on. That's life.
I value my fiends as if they were my sister's. I'm also observant when I hang up with friends. When they start to gossip with another friend that's not present during that time, then I would assume that if I'm not around I would be their topic. I would distant myself from this kind of friends and move on with my life. I don't want to deal with negativity and toxic people anymore. I want my peace of mind. Better safe than sorry😌.
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I don't have problem making new friends, I can make new friends easily. There are times that some of my friends, bring their own friends with them during our meet ups and I can easily get along with them. I can blend with people no matter what the race is. But being a friend and a close friend is a different story. I realized that quality outweighs quantity when it comes to friendship. Not everyone is your friend, and you cannot please everybody. That's the reason why i keep my circle small. I can easily identify which is which. For I don't want to fall in a trap of a fake friend again.
That's all for today guys. See you around♥️.
I've started writing this post on Monday but only finishes it today. This days my mind is a bit blur that I cannot think properly, not only today, most of the days😂
You experienced a great learning in terms of friendship ma'am. 😊 Di ka na po madaling maluko. 😄
Minsan tatanga tanga pa Rin ako ma'am. 😬.
Huwag na lang magpautang ma'am para safe
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I only have a few friends too since I was studying.. it's always a group of 3 to 4..
Same.. I consider them toxic . So I rather distant myself from them and be alone than bear the toxicity they bring..
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Right bhe, kung sinong wala, siya Yung topic. Kaloka.
Honestly, sa abroad, 2 people lang kinikita ko lage.. haha.. I met different people, pro d ako comfortable sa big groups.. ayoko minamarites
Ako din bhe, 2-3 friends Lang din. Magulo Pg madami😁
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A blurry mind, what is on your mind!
Yes we really don't have many true friends that will drop everything for you and go help whereever you are!
A lot of things running in my mind😁😁
Finding a real friend is hard, especially marami pa rin talagang backstabber everywhere. I still had a hard time making friends, mas madaling mag hanap nang friends virtually, lalo di kailangang makipag face to face, lol.
Kaya nga e, iwas pasa maritess😁
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I don't have a huge circle of friends either. TBH I talk with more virtual friends. I'm like you I can get by with what I have. It seems the older we get the less that remain in our circle. Life events sometimes pull us away not always ones fault. Friends and close friends I equate it as acquaintances and friends.
Blur minded eh? Either means drink more coffee or put less of what your putting in it 😜 haha
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If not I can talk to myself also. So who needs a lot of them😌😛.
Already drinking coffee everyday, but put a lot of milk😬😁, otherwise it's so strong for me.
Yup I have a few friends that don't talk back like Mr. Fishing Pole and Mother Earth 😁
Oh that's it your weakening your coffee ☕ haha
They are very good friend. They won't argue with you😛😁. Just sometimes you'd feel the wrath.😬
Oh yes Mother Nature can be moody sometimes but can really calm my nerves when she's not 🙃
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I'm sorry you fell in a trap trusting someone as your friend , those are lessons for life, so you can now be more conscious about who are your truly friends. Best regards.
Thank you. Now I'm more careful in choosing my friend. But the real one are hard to find nowadays.
You can distinguish true friends from toxic ones more in their non-verbal body language and behavior. Chances are that your instincts will be right.
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It's smart to stay away from those who backstab their friends. Mas mabuti na yung konti ang real/genuine friends kesa marami pero puro plastic hehe.
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Kaya nga sis, imbes mg enjoy Ka Pg kasama sila, ma stress kapa😬
I know :) Hirap din pilitin ang sarili. Mas okay na magrest na lang or gumala mag-isa hehe
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We all need a true friend to talk to whenever we have a hard day.
True sis. Someone we can trust and pour our heart out.
I have had two real friends since I was in high school. We communicate continuously to update each other's life journey. 💕
Lucky you found them, they are so hard to find nowadays♥️. Mostly just come and go😐.