Past, present and future. Contest #173 [ENG-ESP]
Hola chicas, hacía tiempo que no pasaba por aquí, y como aún estamos en febrero y no he tenido tiempo de escribir un post sobre el amor y seguimos celebrando esta fecha durante todo el mes, me gustaría responder a una de las preguntas propuestas para esta semana en el concurso #173 de la comunidad. De hecho este planteamiento tiene más de una pregunta pero con la misma idea.
El mes del amor sigue en el aire. Como mujer, ¿qué consideras más: las decisiones cuidadosas sobre a quién amar o la libertad de ser espontánea al respecto? ¿Te importan más los momentos presentes o los resultados futuros de tus decisiones? ¿Por qué? Y/o ~
Hello ladies, it’s been a while since I’ve been here, and since we are still in February and I haven’t had time to write a post about love and we are still celebrating this date during the whole month, I would like to answer one of the questions proposed for this week in the contest #173 of the community. In fact this approach has more than one question but with the same idea.
The month of love is still in the air. As a woman, what do you consider more: careful decisions about whom to love or the freedom to be spontaneous about it? Do you care more about the present moments or the future results of your decisions? Why? And/or ~
En algún momento de mi vida, concretamente en mi juventud, me consideré espontánea en lo que al amor se refiere, o al menos eso es lo que pienso ahora. Siempre he dicho que tuve muchos novios, no me preocupaba por el futuro porque no me veía en una relación a largo plazo, de hecho, no había tenido una relación que durara más de un año. Vivía sin preocuparme en este sentido, si funcionaba un tiempo, era perfecto, pero si la relación terminaba por cualquier motivo no estaba mal morir, si no era esa, sería otra.
Cualquiera que me lea pensará que fui libre en la vida y la verdad es que estaba más centrado en estudiar, trabajar y salir de fiesta con mis amigos sin dar explicaciones a nadie. Ahora miro atrás y no me arrepiento de haber disfrutado de todas mis etapas incluida la soltería sin compromiso.
At some point in my life, specifically in my youth, I considered myself spontaneous when it came to love, or at least that’s what I think now. I have always said that I had many boyfriends, I did not worry about the future because I did not see myself in a long-term relationship, in fact, I had not had a relationship that lasted more than a year. I lived without worrying in this sense, if it worked for a while, it was perfect, but if the relationship ended for any reason it was not bad to die, if not that one, it would be another one.
Anyone who reads me will think that I was free in life and the truth is that I was more focused on studying, working and partying with my friends without giving explanations to anyone. Now I look back and I don’t regret having enjoyed all my stages including being single without commitment.
Ahora todo es diferente, siempre llega esa persona que te hace cambiar de opinión y de repente te das cuenta de que pasan los años y celebras el primer aniversario y los siguientes, y así sucesivamente, empiezas a preocuparte por el presente y también por el futuro. Empiezas a valorar la presencia y el compromiso, esto hace que no quieras hacer nada que ponga en peligro tu entorno.
Creo que cuando cuidamos y trabajamos nuestro presente estamos preparando nuestro futuro. Las decisiones que tomemos en el presente afectarán al futuro y si quieres un futuro en el que el amor forme parte de tu vida debes trabajar en ese amor.
Now everything is different, always comes that person who makes you change your mind and suddenly you realice that the years go by and celebrate the first anniversary and the following ones, and so on, you start to care about the present and also the future. You start to value presence and commitment, this makes you not want to do anything that jeopardizes your surroundings.
I think that when we take care of and work on our present we are preparing our future. The decisions we make in the present will affect the future and if you want a future where love is part of your life you work on that love.
Así que, después de más de 17 años, en este momento me preocupo mucho por las decisiones que tomo en el presente, pensando siempre en las consecuencias que pueden tener en el futuro. No creo que sea necesario explicar por qué, pero aún así diré que me gusta mi presente y me gustaría conservarlo en el futuro.
So after more than 17 years, at this moment I care a lot about the decisions I make in the present, always thinking about the consequences they may cause in the future. I don’t think it is necessary to explain why, but I will still say that I like my present and I would like to keep it in the future.
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This is nice. I like the fact that you now see what the future holds for you, and you value it deeply because you know you are not alone. Uike before, you now have people to look out for.
Exactly, I believe that for everything there is a stage.
This got me smiling. I sincerely admire how you concluded your write up with this statement. Despite the fact that, you are spontaneous when it comes to love, you still like your present and would like to keep it in the future. Nice piece, sister!!
Well it was, now I consider myself stable. For everything there is a stage.
Hermso post lleno de alegría, famlia y sobre todo de esperanza. basada en el amor.
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That's exactly what I meant, we learn from our past, we value our present to have a good future. All our actions have consequences. I'm talking about things that would jeopardize what you have.
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En lo personal, yo trato de vivir el presente, es decir, si es cierto un piensa y hace acciones, para tener un futuro tranquilo, mi visión esta en el presente.
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