Not Everyone Sees Me The Same Way # 188. / No Todos Me Ven De La Misma Manera # 188.
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Greetings beautiful Ladies of hive community, very happy to be here again and participate in another extraordinary contest. ☺️
Thanks to our friend @merit.ahama for this week's questions, they are very interesting!
Throughout my life I have experienced many changes, and also with those changes people's perception of me has changed.
How do people see you? How would you like people to see you?
Actually this question has been difficult for me to answer, but more or less by the behavior that people may have towards you, you can draw some conclusions, but you are never totally sure how others see you.
I can say that in my adolescence and much of my youth, people saw me as someone rebellious and stubborn, not all, but if it hurt me that my family was the most judged me, I do not blame them because in some things they were right, I really suffered a lot for that.
Some people from the outside esteemed me as I was, in fact I had good friendships, but others just thought I was very pretentious and unfriendly, the truth is that at that time I didn't know anything about myself.
But life goes by and one changes either for better or for worse, the truth is that now they see me in a totally different way, for example in my family and I know it by their treatment, I think they perceive me as someone sweet and delicate hahaha, it makes me laugh, because it is totally contrary to what they once said and thought of me, I think there are very different opinions with the other people around me, some may see me as very serious and strict, others as very jovial and outgoing, but sometimes we can not be the same with everyone, the truth is that most do not really know how we are, sometimes even we do not know ourselves well.
My husband has known me for 20 years and his perception of me has not changed, it seems unbelievable but he has been the only one who has always had the same impression of me and his treatment with me has always been practically the same, honestly I like that, because he valued me with my virtues and also with my defects.
How I would like people to see me?
I would like people to see in me a person of integrity, who is faithful in her convictions and an authentic and genuine woman in her way of being, that is how I want to live and that is how I want to be seen.
Anyway we know that no matter how hard we try there will always be many people who will have a wrong idea of who we really are, even people who are very close to us, so it is important not to change because someone else asks you to, but if you want changes in your life that is because you are convinced of it.
On the way there will always be people who will talk bad behind our backs, but there will also be those who love us and value us as we are, in fact there will be those who will want to imitate us, because there is everything in the vineyard of the Lord, live giving the best of you, knowing in advance all these things and do not stress for ill-intentioned opinions.
I bid you farewell, see you soon dear ladies!
Thank you for reading and for your support, the Creator bless you generously.
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ESPAÑOL.
Saludos hermosa comunidad de Ladies of hive, muy contenta de estar de nuevo por aquí y participar en otro extraordinario concurso. ☺️
Gracias a nuestra amiga @merit.ahama por las preguntas de esta semana, están muy interesantes.
A lo largo de mi vida he experimentado muchos cambios, y también con esos cambios la percepción de las personas hacia mí ha cambiado.
Como te ve la gente? Como te gustaría que la gente te viera?
Realmente esta pregunta me ha resultado difícil de responder, pero más o menos por el comportamiento que puedan tener las personas hacia uno, se pueden sacar algunas conclusiones, pero nunca se está seguro totalmente de como otros nos ven.
Puedo decir que en mi adolescencia y gran parte de mi juventud, las personas me veían como alguien rebelde y obstinada, no todas, pero si me dolía que mi familia era la que más me juzgaba, no los culpo pues en algunas cosas tenían la razón, verdaderamente sufrí mucho por eso.
Las personas de afuera unas me estimaban tal como era, de hecho tuve buenas amistades, pero otras solo pensaban que yo era muy pretenciosa y poco amigable, la verdad en ese entonces ni yo misma conocía nada de mí.
Pero la vida va pasando y uno va cambiando ya sea para bien o para mal, lo cierto es que ahora me ven de una forma totalmente diferente, por ejemplo en mi familia y lo sé por su trato, creo que ellos me perciben como alguien dulce y delicada jajajaa, me da risa, porque es totalmente contrario a lo que alguna vez decían y pensaban de mí, creo que hay opiniones muy diferentes con las otras personas de mi entorno, unos me pueden ver como muy seria y estricta, otros como muy jovial y extrovertida, pero es que a veces no podemos ser igual con todo el mundo, lo cierto es que la mayoría no sabe realmente como somos, a veces ni nosotros mismos nos conocemos bien.
Mi esposo me conoce desde hace 20 años y su percepción de mí no ha cambiado, parece mentira pero ha sido el único que siempre ha tenido la misma impresión de mí y su trato conmigo siempre ha sido prácticamente igual, sinceramente eso me gusta, porque él me valoró con mis virtudes y también con mis defectos.
Como me gustaría que me viera la gente?
Me gustaría que vieran en mí a una persona íntegra, que es fiel en sus convicciones y a una mujer autentica y genuina en su forma de ser, así quiero vivir y así quiero ser vista.
De todas maneras sabemos que por más que nos esforcemos siempre habrán muchas personas que tendrán una idea errada de quien somos realmente, incluso personas que son muy cercanas a nosotros, por eso es importante no cambiar porque otro te lo pida, pero si quieres cambios en tu vida que sea porque estas convencida de ello.
En el camino siempre habrán personas que hablarán mal a nuestras espaldas, pero también habrán aquellas que nos quieren y valoran tal cual como somos, de hecho habrán aquellas que querrán imitarnos, pues hay de todo en la viña del Señor, vive dando lo mejor de ti, sabiendo de antemano todas estas cosas y no te estreses por opiniones mal intencionadas.
Me despido, hasta pronto queridas damas!
Gracias por leer y por tu apoyo, el Creador les bendiga generosamente.
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Greetings @carisma77 it is true what you describe : "there will always be many people who will have a wrong idea of who we really are", I think the truth is as you say, give the best of you, and it is the one we have. I love it, thanks for sharing!
Hola.
Asi es amiga lo mejor es ser autenticos y estar en paz con uno mismo.
Gracias por tu visita que tengas un hermoso día!
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Thanks You for the support lady 😊🌹
Awww those are not cool way they see, it's too bad that people tend to judge even before they know better.
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Hello!
Yes, unfortunately we are in a world where most people judge without even knowing, but we have to learn to live with that.
Thanks for your visit, greetings lady ☺️
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Thank you very much, I really appreciate the support.
Greetings lady ☺️