Ladies of Hive Community Contest #204 (ESP/ENG)
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Today I wanted to join this initiative because it caught my attention, both questions seem very interesting to me, I was reading their answers and I really like to see how different ideas arise according to nationalities and different cultures.
Hoy quise unirme a esta iniciativa porque llamó mi atención, ambas preguntas me parecen muy interesantes, estuve leyendo sus respuestas y me gusta mucho ver como surgen ideas diferentes según las nacionalidades y diferentes culturas.
Some people are happier when it rains, others' moods tend to shift and they become blue (sad or down). How do you usually feel on rainy days and what are your favorite things to do?
Algunas personas son más felices cuando llueve, otros el estado de ánimo tiende a cambiar y se ponen tristes o deprimidos. ¿Cómo te sientes normalmente en los días lluviosos y cuáles son tus actividades favoritas para hacer?
In my case, I am one of the people who gets a little depressed by rainy days, that is, I feel that everything slows down, the traffic, the people, everything seems to slow down, most people tend to listen to ballad songs. . and suddenly the melancholy comes to the surface, sometimes I like it because the weather makes the air cool, and because I live in a very hot country that is a relief, but if many days go by with that rainy weather then I start to get depressed, I don't know, it's as if the gloomy aspect of the sky makes me sad, or as if the day itself seems to be sad. So I try to chase away the melancholy by doing something I really like, sewing, I immediately look for fabric and start creating something, accompanied of course by a good cup of coffee.
En mi caso soy de las personas a las que les deprime un poco los días lluviosos, es decir, siento que todo se ralentiza, el tráfico, las personas, todo parece ir más despacio, la mayoría de las personas tiende a escuchar canciones de baladas y de pronto la melancolía sale a flote, a veces me gusta debido a que el clima hace que el aire se refresque, y debido a que vivo en un pais muy caluroso eso resulta un alivio, pero si pasan muchos días con ese clima lluvioso entonces empiezo a deprimirme, no lo sé, es como si el aspecto lúgubre del cielo me infundiera tristeza, o como si el mismo día pareciera estar triste. Así que trato de espantar la melancolía haciendo algo que me gusta mucho, coser, inmediatamente busco tela y comienzo a crear algo, acompañada desde luego de una buena taza de café.
A husband told his wife that he wishes her to say "okay" and "yes" to whatever he says to avoid further discussions or arguments. What would you do if you were in her shoes? Would you agree and nod to everything even when it is against your will or feelings? Please share your thoughts.
Un marido le dijo a su esposa que desea que ella diga "está bien" y "sí" a todo lo que él diga para evitar más discusiones o discusiones. ¿Qué harías si estuvieras en su lugar? ¿Estaría de acuerdo y asentiría con la cabeza a todo, incluso cuando sea en contra de su voluntad o sus sentimientos? Por favor comparte tus pensamientos.
I think it is absurd that a woman has to say "Yes" to everything her husband says or thinks, I believe that healthy coexistence is in communication, couples should talk to know each other more and more each day, a person who loves you will not always tell you what you want to hear, but what is good for you, he/her will guide you and help you. Couples are not there to satisfy the will of the other as if they were acephalous beings. In my particular case, I believe that my husband and I have lasted more than 43 years married because neither of us sees the other as a puppet, we know how to recognise each other's individuality, our feelings and our own value, if we disagree on something we simply sit down and talk until we reach an agreement.
Creo que es absurdo que una mujer tenga que decir "Sí" a todo lo que su marido diga o piense, considero que la sana convivencia está en la comunicación, las parejas deben hablar para conocerse cada día más, una persona que te ama no te dirá siempre lo que quieras oír, sino lo que es bueno para ti, te orientará y te ayudará. Las parejas no están para satisfacer la voluntad del otro como si se tratara de seres acéfalos. En mi caso particular, creo que mi esposo y yo hemos durado más de 43 años casados porque ninguno ve al otro como un títere, sabemos reconocer la individualidad del otro, sus sentimientos y su propio valor, si no estamos de acuerdo en algo simplemente nos sentamos a conversar hasta llegar a un acuerdo.
Thank you very much for reading my publication, for me it was a pleasure to have participated in this contest, I send you many blessings and success to all 😊.
Muchas gracias por leer mi publicación, para mi fue un placer haber participado en este concurso, les mando muchas bendiciones y éxito a todos 😊
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I completely agree, rainy days can be so refreshing!
Your thoughts on relationships always make me reflect on my own.
Your marriage is an inspiration - congratulations on 43 years!"
Also, Sewing is such a great way to express yourself creatively.
Yes, it¿s a nice way of expressing my creativity. Yes, in December we will be married for 44 years God willing, thank you for your congratulations.
I can relate to the feeling when the rain goes on for days. It makes me yearn for the sunshine and wish the rain would stop. It's great that you distract yourself from feeling down by doing something productive and creative.
43 years of marriage, wow. Congratulations to you both and thank you for sharing how you kept your relationship that long :)
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Thanks a lot, yes, it's all about love, respect and comunication 😉
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Rainy day is great for us to do favorite hobby 😊 Glad you can handle the situation while raining
Agree with you, we must have good communication to our husband or wife, not just say okay. Everything will be okay if we can deliver our want but also understand what couple want
Exactly, understanding our partner is a matter of empathy, if there is love, there must be understanding and communication. Thank you for commenting
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