My feelings on rainy days. Loh contest #204

Some people are happier when it rains, others' moods tend to shift and they become blue (sad or down). How do you usually feel on rainy days and what are your favorite things to do?

I love rains so much because it's helps me to accumulate free waters. The nature of my business is not affected by the rain because i does everything right there in my room. Work from home mother haha. I prefer raining season's because it produces varieties of crops and foods. Les dust to compare with dry season and the rain water helps me a lot. Though sometimes, rain might disturb one's movements on important things but i still don't get upset with that. I can remember when i was a child, if my mother talks about going to farm, we will start praying for rain to start falling because, with that rain, we won't be able to go again. Sometimes, it do favor us making us to skip the work while it's not always that way on other different occasions.

So, each time i heard the sound of rain on the zinc, the first thing i will do is to take my bucket outside to get some rain waters. Secondly, i will come inside to continue with what am doing and sometimes, i will use it as an opportunity to rest. So, i normally gat some rest whenever is raining or get myself busy with post here or other mining crypto game's. But i don't wish rain to disturb my movement's though it happens at times. For example, on Thursday 19th September 2024, i was attending a friend's wedding and rain met us on the way and it really disturbed me. Though i didn't feel bad because of the rain but only fealt bad because am not at home. If i was to be at home, i would have enjoyed it. Because i would have gotten enough water for myself and at the same time relaxes in my room while it's falling. So, i felt cold with no rapper to cover up myself.

A husband told his wife that he wishes her to say "okay" and "yes" to whatever he says to avoid further discussions or arguments. What would you do if you were in her shoes? Would you agree and nod to everything even when it is against your will or feelings? Please share your thoughts.

I have seen a woman in this situation. She agrees to everything her husbands says for peace to rain. I never knew what she was passing through until her younger siblings took me to her home. I saw her husband commanding her around and she was fearfully doing it without interrupting him. Her husband doesn't care if their are visitors or not rather he kept on belittling his wife. When the man finally left, i asked the woman how is she coping with what i saw and she replied me that marriage is all about endurance and if she didn't do that, her husband won't care about her needs. But yhe oart i want to take here is if it is against my feelings. Honestly i won't say okay when am not okay. I won't say yes and nod my head when am dying inside.

We are all humans with feelings, has the ability to decern what's good or bad. So, no one i mean no one will subject me to accept anything against my feelings and i will accept that. Husbands and wife's are friends and partners. If theirs no good discussion's and agreements between them, it an abusive marriage and I won't be part of it.

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