Hello wonderful ladies of Hive.
Hope you all are enjoying your week.
It's a beautiful thing to be here in this community, I always have such a great time.

So ladies, over the years I've grown from being a little girl to a blooming woman, I've had experiences and I've encountered situations ,made mistakes and of course, I've made decisions and I've started paying for some of them.
If I were to advise my younger self,
The first thing I'd tell myself is
Darah, Be Unapologetically You.
At the end of the day people will have their opinions about you but you have to be that that sweet, outspoken,daring bold, amazing, talented girl that's inside of you,let it out and shine baby girl.
I'd tell my younger self not to be friends with people who undermine her and don't believe in her abilities.
I'd tell my younger self that I need myself first to be strong.
I'd tell my younger self that a crown doesn't make a queen most of the time, it's how she carries and values herself that makes her a queen.
I'd tell my younger self that procrastination is the killer of time and doing the right things at the right time counts.
I'd tell my younger self to make the right friends and move with the right people because your friends are a depiction of who you truly are.

I'd tell my younger self that she doesn't need to fit into the crowd because she is the reason for the crowd and all she should ever do is stand out.
I'd tell my younger self to harness everything opportunity to grow and not be a coward.
I'd tell my younger self to be strong because sometimes stardom is a lonely walk, when you stand out, you literally don't have to walk in the line because you yourself are the pathway.
I'd tell my younger self that it's okay to cry but it's not okay to stay crying but rather get up and forgive,fix things, let go of hurt , try again.

There's so many things i wish my younger self knew as a girl, although I have no regrets because im still going to be the woman I've always dreamed of becoming.
Most times i reminisce on the crazy things i did and i wrap my hands about my self in an enveloping hug,i laugh over it, sometimes I cry , sometimes I'm just nostalgic , sometimes I wish I did better.
For emphasis, I'd tell my younger self,Darah , no matter what Be Unapologetically You, it doesn't mean you should portray bad character and disgusting behavior,it only means that you should just be yourself.
This can only be achieved when you know who you are , love yourself, prioritize yourself, eventually you'll get to know yourself and that's self discovery.
I wouldn't end this without telling my younger self that I absolutely love her and i can't wait for her to be that Amazon she's always wanted to become.

Thank you dear ladies for reading through.
Have you a beautiful week ahead 😘