June Blogging Contest: My Own Impression about Divorce Bill
Hello Hive! How are you? I hope all of you are doing well. I am going to share to all of you about my answer or entry on the second question of June Blogging Contest in @hiveph
Bilang sine-celebrate natin ang ating kalayaan ngayong June, ano ang masasabi mo tungkol sa divorce bill?
"Since we are celebrating our Independence this June, what can you say about Divorce Bill?"
In my own perspective, marriage is a sacred union between two people who truly love each other and wanted to spend the rest of their lives together in best and in worst.
However, there are things and situations in a marriage life which is very hard to understand and fix, no matter how you promised in front of that someone you loved that you will live together in sadness and happiness.
Marriage is beautiful like the red Gumamela (Hibiscus) flower when the couple take good care of each other.
It is like a plant that you have to water it together, put a fertilizer together, and trim it together in order to bloom beautifully.
Just like marriage, it will not grow and glow if only one person is working to make it happen.
The couple needs to work together in building their marriage. There must be love, respect, commitment, compassion, loyalty, and doing each other's part and responsibility.
Just like the house. What will happen to the family living on the house if one part of the house is missing like the roof for example. The people inside will get wet by the rain or exposed to extreme heat from the sun. The house represents the life of the couple. If the other person is doing the right thing, there will be no problem happened.
I am not trying to scare the singles or the love birds who are planning to get married soon. It is an awareness that marriage is not always like a fairy tale or love story that you watch on the movies that in the end, it is happy ending.
Marriage is like a roller coaster or a ferries wheel that goes up and down.
Moreover, it is a serious battle; and there will be an instances or situations that will test each other's patience, love, ego, honesty, faithfulness, and capability to provide.
Marriage is like the ocean. It is not calm all the time.
It is like a survival of the fittest or survival of the strongest relationship. But, no matter how massive is the cyclone or problem that makes the couple stumbled and dropped on the ground, if they have each other's back, it is possible to stand again for a new beginning and gain more strength by supporting each other and continue moving forward together.
A married couple will face a lot of obstacles and challenges that might make the marriage strong or make it weak until it breaks.
Some period in the marriage life is like a broken glass, very difficult to repair.
For me, there is no point of holding the marriage if the other person does not want to hold it.
I agree with the Divorce Bill and I believe that a person do not need to be tangled in a relationship that there is no respect, no love, it is toxic, does not help each other grow, and no longer happy.
A person deserves to be free and have another chance of happiness.
That would be all my impression about Divorce Bill. Thank you for reading my blog and for having my back. Take care everyone.
How about you? What can you say about Divorce Bill?
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Wow, two badges in a row, that's awesome @diamondinthesky! 🎉
I already construct mine ma'am. Hehehe, I will post it later. 😊
Yeeheey! I can't wait to read your blog Ma'am @fixyetbroken
Thank you ma'am. I know you have a great opinion about the given question ma'am and I was right.😊
Thank you Ma'am @fixyetbroken God bless
The divorce bill would be a great relief for battered wives and those who only stick around because they have no choice despite of the extreme toxicity. Marriage is a big responsibility and people must think about it a lot of times beforing entering such thing.
You are definitely right Ma'am @heyitsjian
Thanks for tagging me on this one mam @diamondinthesky . This definitely made me wonder about my personal stand on this matter. I like how the bill was emphasized to be applied only on certain cases hoping that it will be followed accordingly. But what made me scared about it is seeing its impact to our future generations. Here in the US, it has been so normal among families to be easily separated and couples getting remarried. But the painful part is seeing those children left behind by these broken marriages. Though some co-parenting works just fine but mostly of it really doesn’t end up good. I’ve seen several students who felt left out and neglected cause single parents had to work even harder to make ends meet. So, personally, I agree that it is essential for those abused wives and children to be free from such horrendous marriages. But with how corrupt our system is, I am not confident if it will be appropriately implemented.
I agree with you Ma'am @jubilantjenny if there are children involved, it is possible that the children will be Left behind the broken marriages. However, if the marriage involves abused on wife and children, that's another thing.It is better to implement the Divorce Bill. I am just curious Ma'am if Annulment and Divorce take the same time and documents for the process.
It takes a lot of a commitment to hold on to a relationship. But everything too much isn't always a good thing and sometimes it needs to be cut off. Though I'm not yet married, I agree with you. There's no point in staying in a relationship if the foundations are broken or missing.
You're correct 100% Ma'am @ayane-chan A relationship needs a lot of commitment. But, everything too much isn't always a good thing.
For me maam it's a matter of choice, to save the marriage or suffer.
That's true Sir @brandonwrites
save or suffer
I love how you define marriage with the simple things in our surroundings. I entirely agree with you po @diamondinthesky , a person really deserves to have another chance to be free and happy.
Thank you so much Ma'am @tvlipz02 for your appreciation, and thank you as well for reading my blog 😊
You describe marriage so well. It’s not all butterflies indeed. Marriage involves a lot of patience and hard work.
Thank you a million times Ma'am @wittyzell for reading my blog and for the appreciation. God bless and take care.
I love you how relate and define marriage to other things ma’am, @diamondinthesky.
I am also in favor with Divorce Bill. To make it simple, if you are in a happy marriage, of course, there is no need for you to divorce. But for those who are in a toxic and unhealthy marriage, I guess it would be fine to give them a chance to be free and get out of a draining and unhappy marriage.
You're absolutely correct Ma'am @reshychannn to give a chance to those people who are suffering a toxic and unhealthy marriage.
True!!! It takes two to tango. Both the wife and the husband should work together in order to build that strong connection between them that whatever problems/hindrances/challenges life will throw to them, they're still binded. Thanks for your entry Po @diamondinthesky 🥰
Thank you for dropping by and reading my blog Ma'am @jonalyn2020
You are absolutely right Ma'am. Marriage takes two to Tango.