Hi Hivelearners friends.
Today's topic is interesting and we see that today most of the people don't like joint family but it is not good at all if in joint family system all our people have good friendship with each other. There can be no better system because when we all sit at one table and eat, it is much better and each person eats what he likes at that time and the world becomes a gossip.
We do all the things with each other and then the greatest advantage of the table is that all the people for some time, three times out of 24 hours, if we eat bread, those three times all the people sit in the same place, know more things about each other. Which is beneficial later on because it's best to feel each other when we're living together.
I have lived with both such families for some time. One family was one that ate bread together all three times and one was one that everyone ate separately. The difference was that where all the people sat together and ate bread. They used to love each other much more.They felt each other's every thing.
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They start taking care of each other's things then when we need each other we help each other so I like this system more and every person should live his life in the same way with his family and learn a lot there. We also get what works for all of us in the coming time, but we used to see that as soon as it was time for bread, all the people would come out of their rooms and there they would make a rule.
It was mandatory for every human being to follow it. It was a spirit that whenever people come to the table, they will keep their mobile phones in their rooms and how can life be made better with each other. If we talk about it, this thing was much better and that's why they loved each other more and were living together for a long time.
They used to eat and know nothing about each other it used to be that when a person comes to a house, when does he leave, then in such a system, the love for each other becomes very less and people start thinking things against each other, that's why after some time this happens. That all people take their own homes and separate until marriages take place,
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Then they must stay together and if they want to live a good life even after marriage, then they should stay together. If there are fights, then this step. It should be taken that it should be separated because when the family members become too many, little things go wrong if things go wrong in the hearts. I had both these experiences, so I know that if there is a joint family system,
Things are better and if in the same way when people start living separately in their own rooms, then one day it will definitely come. All people get separated but here in Asian countries this is the custom that most people like to live together and there are few people who don't want to live together because they are siblings who have spent 18 years of their lives together.
Having spent 20 years together and understanding each other very well, especially as brothers when they sleep, they stay with each other so it is much easier to run the house and handle all other matters. And if all the people are separated, then after that the whole world will talk against each other, then the wrong things will be said in the heart for each other and then those loves will start to end.
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Here, as I mentioned in my yesterday's post, the people of our country from all the cities have gone to Islamabad, which is our capital, to free Imran Khan by protesting there. Because at this time people have faith in only one person and that is Imran Khan and the situation in our country is not going well and we have seen yesterday that police and rangers vehicles have killed people.
And quite a lot of people who are are dead and many if there are more injured, then this system has to be stopped and our country will develop only after the freedom of Imran Khan. Every person has his own opinion. I have shared my opinion with you and I have this experience because for some time I stayed at my relative's house. I have shared my experience with everyone,
I hope you will learn something from this post. Your comments are very special to me and motivate me to create good content. Please do comment. Of you people by reading the posts, I have also increased my knowledge and know how people are living all over the world, some people are separated and some people are still together and have families together.
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So when families are together, one of the advantages is that other people don't interfere in your family matters, you do what you want and what you want. I also benefit from you, so that's why joint family system has many advantages and when we are left alone in a separate house then no one comes to meet us and it is also a problem when we are together then father's house is there and everyone is there.
Nowadays, the reason for distance from each other is this mobile phone because we are giving all our time to this mobile phone and when a person comes to us in our room, we are busy with the mobile phone, we do not pay attention to this person and do not respect him.
If you give, that's why these relationships are not very strong nowadays. Because of this mobile, people used to have time to give to each other. Now there is no time. People have earned a lot of money, but when we give each other time if they don't, the relationship starts to deteriorate from there.
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Who is djbravo?
Djbravo real name is Asad-chughtai and i am from Pakistan. Asad-chughtai is an writer, blogger, crypto trader, and nature lover. My goal is to share these special places and natural sights with all of you.
You speak the very truth, there is always a special bond, families who eat food together so feel and enjoy
Thanks alot.