Ladies of Hive Community Contest #188 || ✨ What perception do people have of me and what would I like it to be? ✨ [ESP/ENG]

Para empezar y como muchas veces lo he escuchado, "no somos moneda de oro para caerle bien a todos", un dicho muy popular en mi país y del que tiene mucho para analizar e interpretar. De todos van a llegar diferentes tipos de opiniones, tanto buenas como malas, eso es normal y con el tiempo aprendí a no absorberlo todo como una esponja..aunque a veces me cuesta más trabajo que otros días, lo cierto es que, lo que debe importar es la percepción que nosotros mismos tengamos y si nos sentimos bien con ellos. Ahora bien, la mentalidad de las personas es difícil de cambiar, pero..como me gustaría que me vieran? La verdad que a mí me encantaría que antes de juzgarme por mi apariencia tímida y reservada, se dieran el tiempo de conocerme mejor antes de emitir algún comentario sarcástico como ya tristemente me ha pasado en anteriores ocasiones, y eso, aunque muchas personas no lo crean, tiende a cerrar y darle mas inseguridad a esas personas que como yo necesitan seguridad y comodidad en un entorno o grupo social. A mí me encantaría que le vieran como la chica buena, amable y simpática que soy, si, confieso que no soy abierta a la primera interacción, pero cuando me siento en confianza con las personas que me rodean puedo llegar a ser mucho más de lo que sé muchos a mi alrededor piensan de mi.

Espero les haya gustado, extiendo mi invitación a todos los que deseen participar, nos vemos pronto será hasta la próxima y que tengan un feliz día!💋

Hello dear friends of Hive ❤️ a big greeting to all who visit me today, this time joining a new week to this initiative proposed by the community team and our dear @merit.ahama, created by and for us women. 💕

It's been a long time since I joined and today I want to come back with all the good vibes and energies that a new week and the arrival of a new month transmit us. Particularly I have to say that I felt very identified with one of the questions, because sometimes they are questions that I could easily ask myself, out of simple curiosity and to know more about my perception regarding my way of being and personality in front of others.

✨How do people see you? How would you like people to see you?🤔

To begin with and as I have heard many times, "we are not gold coins to please everyone", a very popular saying in my country and has a lot to analyze and interpret. From everyone will come different types of opinions, both good and bad, that is normal and over time I learned not to absorb it all like a sponge...although sometimes I find it harder than other days, the truth is that, what should matter is the perception that we ourselves have and if we feel good about them. Now, people's mentality is difficult to change, but...how would I like them to see me? The truth is that I would love that before judging me for my shy and reserved appearance, they would take the time to get to know me better before making some sarcastic comment as has sadly happened to me on previous occasions, and that, although many people do not believe it, tends to close and give more insecurity to those people like me who need security and comfort in an environment or social group. I would love to be seen as the nice, kind and friendly girl that I am, yes, I confess that I am not open to the first interaction, but when I feel confident with the people around me I can become much more than what I know many around me think of me.

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I hope you liked it, I extend my invitation to all who wish to participate, see you soon until next time and have a happy day!💕🤗

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