Strengthened Connections And Growth || LOH #230

It's amazing how life starts to make more meaning once you decide to broaden your horizon. For as much as I have known myself, I was convince that keeping people at arm's length was the best way to protect my peace. No unnecessary attachments, no expectations, no disappointments. But what I didn’t realize was that in trying to protect myself, I was also missing out, on deep friendships, on the growth that happens when you learn from other people. I had a good thought nd I came to see that right now, one of the things I enjoy most about my life is the connections I’ve built and how it has helped me buid myself in the best possible way.

I've had friends, but most of them were just surface-level, more like people I'm generally nice to and who share the same mutual feeling, nothing so deep. Last year, after some deep reflection, I realized I needed to do better. I decided not to limit myself to just the few people I've know my whole life o let more people into my life. Not just letting opening my arms to new people but also strengthening the connections I already had. It wasn’t an easy step, but looking back, I’m so grateful I took it.

One of the biggest steps I took was attending a Tech Bootcamp. For months, I worked alongside people who, unknowingly, helped shape me in ways unimaginable .These weren’t just my classmates or teammates; they became part of my close circle. One of the best things about meeting new people is gaining different perspectives about matters of life. Everyone came from a different chapter of life, had a different story to tell, a perculiar way of thinking, and when I take the time to listen, I had a lot to learn.

If I’m being honest, I don’t always feel excited about trying new things, especially when they seem tough. Sometimes I conclude things won't work out even before I try. But at the Bootcamp, I met people who didn’t believe in the word “impossible.” Their confidence and determination were something I admired and worked to have.Working with them taught me that challenges aren’t something to fear but they can be chances to push yourself to something better.

Among the many incredible people I met last year, I had the honor of meeting my best girl. Meeting her was completely unexpected, but somehow, she’s become one of the best part of my life. It’s funny how life works, you meet someone casually, and before you know it, they become family. Having a solid friendship like ours has reminded me that true connections exist, and they’re worth nurturing.

Beyond friendships, I’ve grown to understand myself better. Clarity is something I never used to have, but now, I know myself better than ever. Sticking to my goals hasn’t been easy. Self-discipline is tough, and there have been moments I almost yeilded to letup. But seeing my progress, and how I'm locking in little by little, makes me happy.

Right now, I’m grateful, not just for the people I’ve met but for the version of myself I'm growing to become. Strengthening my connections and growing into a better person have made this phase of my life truly fulfilling. There is no better feeling.

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