I am pleasant: WEEK 237
To be honest I don't know, would you like to, would you not.it's all a matter of the person, some may like the way I am and others may not in the end we are not a gold coin to please everyone we meet and it's not that someone has something wrong with us because we don't get along, but simply that at that moment we didn't agree on anything and a bond was not created.
Although I think that many people would like me because I am a sociable person, very cheerful, I am always with a smile on my face and I always try to make the person feel as comfortable as possible even though I can talk a lot, I am very reserved with my private life, I do not tell my life to that person I barely know, in my opinion that person would have to gain my trust and respect to talk freely about everything.This is my way of being and maybe some people find it strange or old-fashioned, but it seems stranger to me to tell everything about my life, even my intimate life to people that I have known for 3 days.
Nowadays I wouldn't change for anyone, before when I was younger and silly I did it to fit in with a group of friends, I went out to parties and things that I didn't really like, until I changed my look to please my friends, to feel part of that group, but deep down what I was doing was hiding the real me with a mask, I was only showing what they wanted to see.In the end no one can hide who they are, that's why in courtship many people lie or don't show themselves as they really are in order to please their partner and that's where the biggest problems arise.
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People has different opinion for us, that's for sure. But as long as we know that we are good, we don't have to change just so they will like us. Just be the real "you," as in the real and genuine one. As for me i don't really care how people see me, I'll do what I want to do, as long i'm happy and comfortable to that version of me. So cheers to ourselves, for being real.
You are right, but the truth is that people are capable of doing many things, even lying in a job, at university, in a relationship, in order to be liked. There are few who show themselves as they are to others.