LOH #157: MISCONCEPTIONS PEOPLE HAVE OF ME AS AN INTROVERT

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It is no doubt that no matter what or who you are people will still have different misconception about you or your personality, whatever you they either get it right or the read a different and negative meaning to it. I have actually learnt to accept what people think of me regardless, I don't give a damn anymore as I do not have the strength to start explaining my intention to people who do not really know me but go ahead and assume stuffs.

As an introvert, I am a victim of misconception talk more of been a woman, the other gender tend to misunderstand a whole lot about women. So the topic for the #ladiesofhive contest is so relatable and I am glad it came up.
Well, as an introvert I like been indoors most times except my close friends are around and we plan to go out together but I would never go out alone in isolation, it boring and attracts unnecessary attentions. So one time, there was someone on my neck insisting he takes me out and all, I refuse for some reasons but he was persistent. When he got tired, he said I was a snub, I was too proud and feeling too important. He misunderstood the fact that it was just my personality to not hangout with strangers as I like a quiet space, going to the club is not for me.

People get to think that all introverts are snubbish and rude, but I don't care. People close to me and that matters to me know me better and that's enough for me.

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That is always their conclusion.
They believe it's because you are proud that you decide not to go out with them.
I'm like that as well, I love my space more than anything else.

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I know right, they take offense because we set boundaries...

Thank you for your input

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We should care less about people's perception about us,
Yeah some people feel that rejecting their offers makes you proud...your happiness matters first.

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Thank you so much, I have learnt not to be bothered by such again

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Some people do not just understand that introverts may have their reasons and instead of accepting them for who they are, they are termed as been snubbish and rude. Well, I don't care either once I know who I am.

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Those kind of people that can observe an environment for hours before they can say a word. It is good to be yourself, speak when you need to.

Rule your world dear

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It's understandable how he concluded you were all you really are not, it's best we know ourselves so those words won't have any effect on us.

Thanks for participating sis.
!LADY

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Yeah... I don't let those stuff get to me anymore

Thank you

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That's a common misconception about introverts,but thankfully not everyone see you that way
At least people close to you can say otherwise. That is why you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover.

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This is so true. For the fact that you don't talk dies not mean you are rude that's what I tell people who cares

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