Sacrifice [ contest loh #175]
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Another name of a woman is sacrifice, a woman sacrifices everything for her family, even her own goal
Sacrifice doesn't mean you lose anything it really means you just compromise
A woman has only two options one is your work and the other is family and you will choose your family. You go into a state of stress and many questions come to mind,
- what if I choose my job?
- What is the reaction of my family?
What did I miss?
Same thing happened with me here when I was in 10th class.I was interested in support and after finishing my matric exams. I told my family that I love support and I want to do it. But my family didn't allow it, actually I had to go from Faisalabad to Lahore and there is a big reason and an obstacle that stops my family that I can't do it. My parents said you can't do that, you are too young (I mean my age was about 16 I think) you can't live without us, you are alone in Lahore, I said I can do it and will do. I had no one with me but I am with me but that is not enough. My sister also cannot help in this matter
My elder sister was using my parent's language and my youngest sister couldn't do anything. I fought with my family. I fought with my family for almost a month but nothing happened.
Finally I said that you have said that you are young and you are not old enough to live alone.
He said yes then I said ok but make a deal with me that after intermediate exams I will fulfill my goal he said no and I said ok then I will go now and he agreed but so much efforts after Here is a question why women have to make such efforts?
Well, I am waiting for my intermediate exams. Exams are near I am very happy,
A tragedy
But here I had very bad luck. One such accident happened and damaged my disk. I was very worried these days. The doctor said you should rest, now you can't run, jump, hold anything heavy I was depressed and had a question in my mind.
1.What does life want from me?
2.What will happen next?
In those moments I totally broke down and thought that if my family had let me go in 10th class, this would not have happened in my life but I can't tell my family that I am in depression and what I am thinking. I can't tell all these things to my family but why? My goal was broken, I moved on but I never forgot my goal, I love my goal,
But now I can't do anything.
Women's lives are controlled by others.
This is my real life story. An accident changed my entire life. After that I couldn't forget my goal and never maked a new goal
Oh my dear, I can feel your pain, when we miss opportunities and then later on in life we never get them again we feel very devastated. All I can say is hold on, you are too young and later on in life you will have other opportunities coming up for you, but yes at the same time, some things have to happen at a certain time and for this one may be you may not be able to fulfill your dreams but there may be something better for you.
A woman will only keep sacrificing till she keeps giving in. If she learns to make her own choices and stand up for them then all the decisions of her life will only be taken by her
you are right. That maybe I deserve a better chance. Rather I joined the university and there are finals sports every year and I participate in these supports, my parents are not happy that I participate in the games because they are worried about my health. And I stood up to my family but maybe life doesn't want that either. And if women get their life decisions by their own will, the society makes a question mark for her.
That was really painful dear. A woman will be left to make her choices when she is only getting older although when she is young with ideas restriction occurs. This is what the society believes. But I want you to be strong in this time. Okay? Do have a lovely week.
Yes you are right dear friend and I think this society is not made for these women who want to live their life in their own way. Here they live but without their decision and live with other divisions
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There is no doubt that in our country the authority of a woman's life rests with her father, her brother and her husband. Even if they become independent, a single woman has no place in society 😞