I like when it rains | LOH #204 contest week

Greetings ladies, today is another week, we are already close to October and soon December in the blink of an eye, let's see what we have this week:

Some people are happier when it rains, others' moods tend to shift and they become blue (sad or down). How do you usually feel on rainy days and what are your favorite things to do?

I love it when it rains, whenever I get the chance I go for a walk in the rain, my favorite moment is when I'm coming back home and it's raining, I walk happily to my house, when I get there I take a hot shower, make myself a cup of hot chocolate and put on a movie, and everything feels so wonderful. My mom got me used to drinking chocolate on rainy days and she also allowed me to go out into the garden to play a little in the rain when I was little, that's why I have that habit and love for these rainy days.

Saludos ladies, hoy estamos en otra semana más, ya estamos cerca de octubre y pronto diciembre en un pestañeo, vamos a ver qué tenemos esta semana:

Algunas personas se sienten más felices cuando llueve, mientras que otras tienden a cambiar de humor y se vuelven melancólicas (tristes o deprimidas). ¿Cómo te sientes normalmente en los días de lluvia y cuáles son tus cosas favoritas para hacer?

A mí me encanta cuando llueve, cuando tengo la oportunidad voy a caminar debajo de la lluvia, mi momento favorito es cuando estoy de regreso a casa y llueve, camino feliz hasta mi casa, al llegar tomo una ducha caliente, me preparo una taza de chocolate caliente y pongo una película, y todo se siente tan maravilloso. Mi mamá me acostumbró a tomar chocolate en los días lluviosos y también ella me permitía salir al jardín a jugar un poco en la lluvia de pequeña por eso tengo esa costumbre y amor por estos días lluviosos.



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A husband told his wife that he wishes her to say "okay" and "yes" to whatever he says to avoid further discussions or arguments. What would you do if you were in her shoes? Would you agree and nod to everything even when it is against your will or feelings? Please share your thoughts.

Girl, what? First of all, I'm getting a divorce, why would I agree to marry someone like that? Of course I wouldn't allow it, mainly because it's not part of my culture, at least where I come from, men and women are equal in relationships, both have the right to express their opinions. Besides, arguments sometimes have to exist, not everything in life is rosy, we all have our differences but by talking we can reach a solution. I can't allow someone to simply exert control over me as if I didn't have feelings, I don't think it's a marriage that will last long. A husband like that wouldn't really be respecting his wife, she's a human being with feelings, thoughts, ideas. Unfortunately, I can't.

Un marido le dijo a su esposa que deseaba que ella dijera "está bien" y "sí" a todo lo que él dijera para evitar más discusiones o peleas. ¿Qué harías si estuvieras en su lugar? ¿Estarías de acuerdo y asentirías a todo, incluso cuando fuera en contra de tu voluntad o de tus sentimientos? Comparte tu opinión.

Girl, what? Lo primero es que me divorcio ¿por qué aceptaría casarme con alguien así?
Por supuesto que no lo permitiría, principalmente porque no es parte de mi cultura, por lo menos de dónde yo vengo, hombres y mujeres somos iguales en la relación, ambos tienen derecho a expresar sus opiniones. Además de que las discusiones algunas veces tienen que existir no todo en la vida es color de rosa, todos tenemos nuestras diferencias pero hablando se llega a una solución. No puedo permitir que alguien simplemente ejerza un dominio sobre mi como si yo no tuviera sentimientos, no creo que sea un matrimonio que dure mucho. Un esposo así realmente no estaría respetando a su esposa, ella es un ser humano con sentimientos, pensamientos, ideas. Lamentablemente yo no puedo.




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I like people ho loves the rain and those who don't complain about the mud it makes.
Good luck on the contest

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Not unfortunately, no sane woman would go into that form of relationship. This isn't the 1800s and that era is long gone. I would say the man play his role, I play mine and we respect each other in the process. Anything lesser than that, I cannot deal with.

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Rainy days are simply the best. And men that feel they have a higher hand over the other gender just because they're men, is a no-no for me.

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You have wonderful memories with your mom, hot chocolate drinks, and the rain so it's no surprise you like it :)

You're right, a relationship where only one of the parties gets to say things is unhealthy and toxic. Nobody would love to be in it, although some are forced to be.

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The truth is that humanity needs more help, the needs and forced labor that some people go through is horrible. Women are still treated unfairly in this world by men, I don't want to even imagine what those women who are forced to marry and be objects.

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I don't think it is right for a woman to be in a relationship where she can't voice out her thoughts which can lead to emotional and mental stress.

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In serious cases it can even cause death, nobody should live like this, we should all have autonomy and freedom.

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