Sacrifices | LOH #175 contest week

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Greetings, this time I will be answering a question that I feel actually brings back painful memories, after writing it (I only wrote the minimum) I thought about almost all the things I have sacrificed for others.

Saludos, en esta ocasión estaré respondiendo una pregunta que siento que en realidad me trae recuerdos dolorosos, después de escribirlo (solo escribí lo mínimo) pensé en casi todas las cosas que he sacrificado por otros.


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A Woman is always expected to make sacrifices for her family. Have you ever sacrificed anything important for your loved ones and never spoken about it? Would you like to share your story with us?

I think that from a very young age I have been sacrificing things for others. For example, as a teenager I learned to do makeup and when I wanted to go to a meeting with makeup on, I planned to do it and it turned out that a family member wanted me to help them with makeup and that often left me going poorly stylish and not wearing makeup as I expected.

The same thing happened with money, many times I already had my money planned and a member of my family asked me to borrow money or required something, there are times where I have been left without a penny to meet others and I have not said anything. Many times when they wanted me to be somewhere and I didn't even have money to pay for my bus, I would walk until I got there and return at night walking alone in the dark and very afraid, I never told anyone about those things, everyone assumed that I was fine because they never asked, however these are moments where I was able to give them a little peace of mind, even if it meant losing mine for a moment but there was always something that made me feel that everything would be okay.

Siempre se espera que una mujer haga sacrificios por su familia. ¿Alguna vez has sacrificado algo importante por tus seres queridos y nunca has hablado de ello? ¿Quieres compartir tu historia con nosotras?

Creo que desde muy joven vivo sacrificando cosas por los demás. Por ejemplo de adolescente aprendí a maquillar y cuando quería ir a alguna reunión maquillada, me planificaba para hacerlo y resultaba que algún familiar quería que yo le ayudara con el maquillaje y eso muchas veces me dejaba a mi yendo poco arreglada y sin maquillarme como esperaba.

Con el dinero sucedía lo mismo, muchas veces ya tenía mi dinero planificado y algún miembro de mi familia me pedía prestado dinero o requería alguna cosa, hay ocasiones donde me he quedado sin un centavo por cumplir con otros y no he dicho nada. Muchas veces cuando querían que estuviera en un lugar y no tenía ni para pagar mi bus me iba caminando hasta llegar y me devolvía en las noches caminando sola en la oscuridad y con mucho miedo, nunca le dije a nadie sobre esas cosas, todos asumían que yo estaba bien porque nunca preguntaron, sin embargo son momentos donde pude regalar un poco de tranquilidad para ellos, así significara perder la mía por unos instante pero siempre había algo que me hacía sentir que todo estaría bien.

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Hey mama
Thank you for sharing
I was once like this. I won't say was because am still gradually changing. Yes changing because most at times I get played and not valued because I am always to available and I care too much.
So whatever u do nowadays I tend to do me first before any other person.
Except nd otherwise it's life and death

Sorry for all the pains caused you
I just want to remind you to your strong and one day you would get all the good things you so desire

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