AGE: A CONTROVERSIAL FACTOR IN RELATIONSHIP
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I'm not the love expert here, but I know that in the issue of relationships, what works for Peter might not work for Paul. In the past, I have been in a relationship with older ladies, so I think I can talk from experience. I'm the kind of guy that can turn to a fool for love (I don wise now😂) I don't really care about age or so many things people care about when it comes to loving a person. I like to judge based on what a person does and not who they are. So age isn't something I would put on the list of things I want in a lady.
But then again I don't sugar mummy 😂 five years gap if I'm the younger person is okay. What the hell will I even be doing with someone 10 years older... I'm not sure we can even relate on a personal level, because I will be officially calling you ma😂. Although if it were the other way round, 10 years Is okay, 15 years for me is too much, but I know some ladies who fancy it like my younger sister. I really can't understand why they like that age gap, because I see it as too much.
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In my opinion, women grow faster than men, hence there is a need to be a balance in the maturity of both individuals. I think every woman needs a man mature enough to understand and lead her, a man she can rely on, not a boy who is still trying to find his feet. This is why most times it's advisable that the man is more mature in age. However, there are unique circumstances where the guy might be young in age yet psychologically mature enough to handle an older woman.
From experience, relationship with older ladies is usually based on understanding and respect unlike the conventional or should I say normal relationship. The lady most times knows exactly what she wants out of the relationship and also knows how to show love the right way, unlike the drama that goes on in a normal relationship. This is mainly because most of the ladies have experience from previous relationships. Not that the younger ladies don't, but I think the guys will understand this statement better. I don't want to complicate things with people who think otherwise so I will drop the pen here😂
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It is true that ladies mature more than men. I guess that is why ladies always prefer an older man because he would match her in terms of responsibility and commitment.
Definitely right, but then again, some fill if you are good, (despite the age) and they can trust you, they are good to go with you
Drop the pen you don try😂😂. See this relationship stuff ehn. Smh.
Maturity matters, it is the topmost ingredient needed and then age. I do agree that dealing with someone 15 years older than you may bring in the Ma/Sir vibe.
I do believe that being in a relationship with someone who you can relate with well, someone that respects you, love you, understand you, adore you and accept your flaws matters. Someone who won't use your past mistake as a weapon on you matters.
Yes it matters a lot, a very crucial point to be considered, someone like me 😁
Haha... Yeah, right.
This relationship stuff have so many ups and down. As a guy, i prefer a lady younger than i do and also, i have been in a relationship with a older lady without knowing because of my body buildup, but when she found out, she starting giving the space and things went south.
#dreemerforlife
She probably had pride issues. Many ladies have it. Thanks for stopping by.
and she was very nice to me o.
well... it was a mature relationship and it was when i was still very young. probably she was looking for a husband and i wasn"t meeting the requirement
#dreemerforlife
Probably...
Let me step in from this angle;;;;
Some months back, I decided to woo this particular lady that I'm older than, she's should be 18, 19 ,20 or so. Immediately I told her and asked for a time out, all she said was "I don't have chance". I bursted into laughter because she's yet to hear my intentions and she's already doing shakara. Shakara for who? Me? Omo!
I wonder how people cope with dating these set of 'children'.
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Age matters for me. I have Limitation both up n down
This is were the controversy is. I have also met ladies of same age that will handle such situation really maturely
That is it!
I enjoyed the fact that I read this article! And from your own perspectives, I understand what it is to date older women just because they do things in a more mature way than younger girls! Nice post!
Thanks for stopping by dreemer
That's an interesting topic "Age is just a number." In my opinion, it's one of the factors that should be considered, but not the most important factor. Also, who am I to know?
You're a person 😂 so you should know
I mean I've never been in a romantic relationship, but using my imagination, age would only matter as something to consider. Not something to call off "love" for.
Ooh now i get. Still you should know what you wish to work for you