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Hi Besties! It's been a while since I shared with you a post about the Ladies of Hive weekly contest and honestly this week question number three of this contest caught my attention, since it's something I've been thinking about lately to change my life and my decisions and I want to share with you some of my opinions about it. This week's topic has to do with balancing one's own needs and supporting other people with their problems, basically.
Hi Besties! Hace rato no les compartÃa un post sobre el concurso semanal de esta comunidad Ladies of Hive y honestamente esta semana me llamó muchÃsimo la atención la pregunta número tres de este concurso, ya que es algo en lo que he estado pensando últimamente para cambiar un poco mi vida y mis decisiones y quiero compartirles un poco de mis opiniones al respecto. El tema de esta semana tiene que ver con el equilibrio entre las necesidades propias y apoyar a las demás personas con sus problemas, básicamente.
I have always been a person who likes to help a lot when someone I care about has a problem, I really don't mind supporting them, helping them to solve it or at least giving them my honest opinion about it. But I have certainly realized that I have given a lot for other people and I have forgotten a little on that road, especially with friends, because with family it is a little different, since I think we are many people and we all have to support each other, but we also know how to solve problems autonomously, so I feel that with respect to family this does not happen to me so much, this happens to me mostly with friendships. Although it is not, it is not that I ignored my needs, I tended to solve them for myself in a late way, I always looked for ways to solve them for others and I left myself very forgotten and I think it is something I have to accept out loud.
Yo siempre he sido una persona que le gusta ayudar muchÃsimo cuando alguien que me importa tiene algún problema, yo realmente no tengo inconveniente en apoyarlo, en ayudarlo a resolver o en por lo menos darle mi opinión sincera del tema. Pero ciertamente me he dado cuenta de que he dado muchÃsimo por las demás personas y me he olvidado un poco en ese camino, especialmente con las amistades, ya que con la familia es un poco distinto, ya que creo que somos muchas personas y entre todos tenemos que apoyarnos, pero también sabemos cómo resolver los problemas de forma autónoma entonces siento que con respecto a familia no me pasa tanto esto me pasa más que todo con amistades. Si bien no está, no es que obviaba mis necesidades, tendÃa a resolver para mà de forma tardÃa, siempre buscaba como resolverle a los demás y me dejaba muy olvidada y creo que es algo que tengo que aceptar en voz alta.
And well I realized this a couple of months ago, I think since my birthday, which was in the month of May, I started to change the dynamic a little bit, it has distanced me from a lot of people, I have stopped doing many things and I have stopped giving so much for others and I think that since August of this year I have changed my attitudes a little bit and I have also prioritized my needs above other people, because at the end of the day you will always have yourself and I think it is very sad to give so much for others, but that others do not give anything for you, which is what happened to me. Because even though I could help them when it was my turn to be the protagonist of something, nobody supported me and if they did, I didn't really contribute much, so the problem is not really that you help other people, it's knowing who to help because the moment something happens to you, you're only going to have yourself. And I think that's the best advice I can give you, don't be bad people, but don't be naive either and always put yourself as the priority first and foremost. I hope you loved hearing my thoughts on this, I'll see you soon in another entry of this contest!
Y bueno de esto me di cuenta desde hace un par de meses, creo que desde mi cumpleaños, que fue en el mes de mayo, que comencé a cambiar un poco la dinámica, me ha alejado de muchas personas, he dejado hacer muchas cosas y he dejado de dar tanto por los demás y creo que desde agosto de este año si he cambiado un poco actitudes y también en priorizado mis necesidades por encima de otras personas, porque al final del dÃa siempre te vas a tener a ti mismo y creo que es muy triste dar tanto por los demás, pero que los demás no den nada por ti qué es lo que me pasaba a mÃ. Ya que si bien yo podÃa ayudarlos a ellos cuando me tocaba a mà ser la protagonista de algo, nadie me apoyaba y si lo hacÃan realmente no aportaba mucho entonces el problema realmente no es que ayudes a las demás personas es saber a quién ayudar porque en el momento en que a ti te pase algo solo vas a tenerte a ti misma. Y creo que es el mejor consejo que les puedo dar, no sean malas personas, pero tampoco sean ingenuas y siempre colóquense como la prioridad ante todo. Espero que les haya encantado conocer mis opiniones al respecto, nos leemos pronto en otra entrada de ese concurso!
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I agree with you, while it is nice to help others we should be our priority, as you say, many times we have ourselves when something happens to us,!LADY
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