My summer magic is almost always circumstantial || Contest-187 [ENG-ESP]

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My summer magic is almost always circumstantial


For me, vacation plans have been a challenging journey, the difficulty has always been there, due to the unpredictable nature of my professional practice. As a physician, my schedule is often unexpected and very versatile, coupled with my specialty, which is infrequent, placing a higher demand.

When I was little, Mom was the organizer par excellence of family vacation plans, meticulous and measured, careful and zealous in the details, she usually didn't miss a thing and rarely gave a chance for an eventuality. I, her faithful collaborator, her main assistant. They were exquisite days of rest, relaxing and comforting, worthy of digging into memory to remember and relive.

As expected, I distanced myself from the extended family's vacation plans. I began to plan summer vacations for my small family, but I mistakenly failed many times, because I idealized them with unrealistic and unattainable goals, I was obfuscated and disappointed when at the last moment the plans were squandered by some last-minute eventuality, I was overcome with a disappointment difficult to manage and so I transmitted it to my loved ones.


Finally, the moment came, for the benefit of all, that I accepted how wrong I was, insistently adding to the past and wasting the present, persistently and inquisitively overloading myself, limiting myself, and limiting others. I decided to value and use time properly, not as a quantity but as a quality, to live it and feel it as a gift of life, which was escaping by not taking advantage of it. There was the sustenance and the moral, time well spent is happiness, comfort, health, and well-being.

For us as a family, restful relaxation and quality time off will always be at the top of our priorities, because they recover us from daily demands and boost our positive energies. What we value most are our short periods of free time, no matter how appropriate to the circumstances. In particular, we do not like to be in crowded places. On the contrary, we prefer small and sparsely populated communities, we are pleased to fully enjoy the whims of nature and its beautiful ancestral wisdom.

In the Venezuelan plains, we have a very special place, provided by friends, when we need it, a farm with a modest house, fruit trees, and nature everywhere. It smells of tranquility, of disconnection, of wisdom. These are moments of walks and strolls, of perceptive reconfigurations, interacting with a plurality of sounds, smells, and colors, which hoist the exquisite harmony of inequality in heterogeneity, which is only possible in Mother Earth. The sunrises and sunsets are a spectacle, worthy of praise, the horizon is adorned with the rainbow of colors that stand out in the sky. Undoubtedly it is our special place. I hope that this year everything flows in sync and we can escape, even if only for a few days, it will be pleasant, and enriching... the last time we were there was four years ago.

This, is my answer to the question of the Contest #187

With summer fast approaching (winter, if below the equator) what special vacation plans do you have in the next couple of months? Where are you going and what activities are planned? Please include any photos of your destination.

Thanks for your visit.


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Mi magia estival es casi siempre circunstancial


Para mí, los planes de vacaciones han sido todo un desafío, la dificultad siempre ha estado presente, debido a la naturaleza impredecible de mi ejercicio profesional. Como médico, mi horario es a menudo inesperado y muy versátil, unido a mi especialidad, que es poco frecuente, lo que supone una mayor demanda.

Cuando era pequeña, mamá era la organizadora por excelencia de los planes vacacionales familiares, meticulosa y comedida, cuidadosa y celosa en los detalles, no solía escapársele nada y casi nunca daba oportunidad a una eventualidad. Yo, su fiel colaboradora, su principal ayudante. Eran días exquisitos de descanso, relajantes y reconfortantes, dignos de escarbar en la memoria para recordar y revivir.

Como era de esperar, empecé a distanciarme de los planes de vacaciones de la familia extendida. E inicié la planificación de las vacaciones de verano para mi pequeña familia, pero erróneamente fracasé muchas veces, porque las idealicé con metas poco realistas e inalcanzables, me ofuscaba y decepcionaba cuando en el último momento los planes se dilapidaban por alguna eventualidad de última hora, me invadía una decepción difícil de gestionar y así se lo transmitía a mis seres queridos.


Finalmente, llegó el momento, en beneficio de todos, en que acepté lo equivocada que estaba, añadiendo insistentemente al pasado y desperdiciando el presente, sobrecargándome persistente e inquisitivamente, limitándome a mí misma y limitando a los demás. Decidí valorar y utilizar adecuadamente el tiempo, no como cantidad, sino como cualidad, vivirlo y sentirlo como un regalo de la vida, que se me escapaba por no aprovecharlo. Ahí estaba el sustento y la moraleja, el tiempo bien empleado es felicidad, comodidad, salud y bienestar.

Para nosotros, como familia, el descanso reparador y el tiempo libre de calidad siempre estarán en lo más alto de nuestras prioridades, porque nos recuperan de las exigencias diarias y potencian nuestras energías positivas. Lo que más valoramos son nuestros breves periodos de tiempo libre, por muy adecuados que sean a las circunstancias. En particular, no nos gusta estar en lugares abarrotados, al contrario, preferimos las comunidades pequeñas y poco pobladas, nos complace disfrutar plenamente de los caprichos de la naturaleza y de su hermosa sabiduría ancestral.

En los llanos venezolanos, tenemos un lugar muy especial, proporcionado por amigos, cuando lo necesitamos, una finca con una casa modesta, árboles frutales y naturaleza por todas partes. Huele a tranquilidad, a desconexión, a sabiduría. Son momentos de paseos y caminatas, de reconfiguraciones perceptivas, interactuando con una pluralidad de sonidos, olores y colores, que enarbolan la exquisita armonía de la desigualdad, en la heterogeneidad, que solo es posible en la madre tierra. Los amaneceres y atardeceres son un espectáculo, digno de elogio, el horizonte se engalana con el arco iris de colores que resaltan en el cielo. Sin duda es nuestro lugar especial, espero que este año todo fluya en sincronía y podamos escaparnos, aunque sea por unos días, será agradable y placentero, enriquecedor... la última vez que estuvimos fue hace cuatro años.

Esta es mi respuesta a la interrogante del Concurso #187

Ahora que se acerca el verano (o el invierno, si está por debajo del ecuador), ¿qué planes de vacaciones tiene para los próximos meses? ¿Adónde vas y qué actividades tienes previstas? Por favor, incluya fotos de su destino.

Gracias por tu visita

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May 29, 2024

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29 de mayo de 2024



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Muchas gracias proyecto @enlace por el apoyo. Agradecida y honrada con la deferencia !HUG !LUV !LADY

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I can relate to the fact how the desire to be perfect in the execution of our plans make them a failure. Life circumstances are not in our control always. If we sre not flexible with pur plans, we are seldom able to execute them.

I have realized that it is better to take the advantage of available time in the present than to wait for a particular time to come in the future...... it is likely to come with its own eventuality.

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Greetings dear @amberkashif it is a pleasure and an honor your enriching reflections. I am an example of what happens when we insist on a perfection that deep down is chimerical, we transit in the heterogeneity of chaos, everything changes, everything mutates, and hability is to navigate in the waves and flow with them. Fortunately, life as it shakes you gives you the teaching of experiences and with it, I have been letting go and at the same time finding the goodness of the circumstances, feeling more plenitude in learning.

I have realized that it is better to take the advantage of available time in the present than to wait for a particular time to come in the future...... it is likely to come with its own eventuality.

What a profound phrase and full of wisdom, why do we leave it for later? When will it arrive? What if it never arrives? What if when it arrives those who should be there are not there? Many questions to consider, and we translate that the moments of joy and happiness do not wait on a calendar, nor are they given appointments, they are enjoyed and welcomed without further pretensions.

Thank you for your support and my sincere thanks to the @hivepakistan community, for the consideration, I appreciate it and thank you. Happy week !HUG !LUV !PIZZA

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What if when it arrives those who should be there are not there?

It reminded me of something.
We had constructed a new kitchen in our house. I was so happy. I wanted to ask my father to visit my home and see how the kitchen looked.

At that time I was pregnant of 7 months. Instead of inviting my father, I thought he will visit my home when I will have the baby. I would show the kitchen to him at that time........ but what happened, just a monrh later, an unknown disease took my father's life within 3 days.

The anticipated time came but it lacked the presence of my father.

Living life fully means to live in present, making the most of the given moment. Future is a mystery....

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Greetings dear @amberkashif I am sorry for your loss, so important and vital to your life and family. Thank you for considering sharing life experiences, I feel honored. I have also lived personal experiences, many things wrongly I put them off but I learned the lesson, it behooves us to be grateful for the past where we come from and live without regard for the present, because what goes away does not come back. Thank you for these reflections, jewels of life. Happy weekend in family union. Health and wellbeing for you and yours! !LADY

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because what goes away does not come back

True. The wisdom is in to let yourself go of the past and dwell in the present. However, the lessons from the past is the thing to be kept so that we may live a better today.

It's a great delight to have a conversation with you, !LADY.

Have a nice weekend 😊

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I pray that you get to go to the farm this year 🙏 And perhaps even make it a yearly tradition!

It sounds like you live in a nice area, are there natural places nearby?

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Kind regards @wrestlingdesires it is an honor to your words and your visit, I appreciate it and I feel grateful. Thank you for your good wishes, your good energy will converge to make everything flow in harmony and synchronicity. I try to make it an annual gift, for the family, pampering the body, mind, and spirit, is pampering and prolonging life.

It sounds like you live in a nice area, are there natural places nearby?

I would like to live in a place like this, with so much goodness and energy, a true elixir for the senses. These images are from the farm where we were four years ago. The current reality is that I live in a turbulent and hectic city, where I work in a Hospital and at the University training future doctors. But all is not lost, I am interested in seeking this exquisite and comforting calm in the future, trying not to arrive too late to enjoy it to the fullest.

Excited and grateful for your support and consideration, I extend my gratitude to the VYB curation project !LUV !PIZZA

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We can plan and hope that it transpires, holidays are definitely a wonderful time to be away with the family.

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It's a pleasure to greet you @joanstewart, thank you for your exquisite and heartfelt feedback. Yes, they are unique, comforting, and healthy moments, not to be postponed. In our case, we can't take many days, but in our short period, we enjoy it to the fullest. I hope that your vacations exceed your expectations and fill you with many pleasant moments in family togetherness. Thank you very much for the gifts, much appreciated !LUV !PIZZA

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Over years of our sons growing up we took regular breaks to new venues to give them a feel of the country, be in nature away from city life as often as possible. Enjoy your weekend!

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Wonderful, comforting, and healthy decision put into action @joanstewart It is just and necessary to recharge energies, it also stimulates in our children the love for Mother Earth. Thank you for your good wishes, happy weekend, health, and well-beingg.

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We planned to go away quite regularly enjoying outdoor life, camping, parks board establishments eventually established holiday accommodation when the children were growing up. It really doesn't matter how you go, it is making sure to take proper breaks to spend quality time with the family.

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That's right @joanstewart I fully share your philosophy of life, in your expression there are keywords that we must not forget and always give applicability with its right measure, therein lies the secret, allow me to quote it:

It is making sure to take proper breaks to spend quality time with the family

Thank you for this fluid and enriching socialization, happy weekend, health, and well-being for you and yours !LUV

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The present matters a lot especially if it concerns an opportunity that is not constant. Procrastination comes with is own set backs.

I love holidaying with family. Its a memorable time on its own.

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Hi, @sunhine29 it is a pleasure to socialize through this interaction. I appreciate your visit and comment. I share what you refer to the opportunities, which are moments that do not wait, nor should we let them go because they could be a before and after in our lives. I am glad you are from the family vein as I am. In our case, everyone is making their own life and the odyssey of extended family travel is already difficult with time, but we always try. Happy week, until another time, a pleasure !LUV !PIZZA

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Truly beautiful 😍. What we make of life is what it will be for us. Family is very important and every opportunity we have with family or loved 🥰 ones is for ever.

We need to try our best with these opportunities that life provide for us.

Enjoy your weekend beautiful 😍

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Hola @marilour disfruté mucho la publicación, las imágenes son muy bonitas. Deseo que en este verano puedas disfrutar con tu familia de tu lugar especial !HUG !LUV !LADY !LOTUS !PIZZA

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Muchas gracias @almajandra por tus buenos deseos, que así mismo sea para tí y los tuyos. Siempre es un gusto tu visita, apreciado !HUG !LUV !LADY

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An uncrowded lovely green valley only for a few days @marilour doesn't sound enought time to wind down for me. Thanks for a peek at your paradise.

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Hi @kerrislravenhill, I can hear the truth in your words, it is not the right thing to do in the face of so much exquisiteness. But sometimes we do not have more, which requires us to live to the fullest and without regrets for a few days. Thank you very much for your visit, your comment is always pleasant, and I appreciate it. Happy weekend, I hope your vacations are beyond your expectations that it pleases you and your loved ones greatly, health and well-being are increased !HUG !LADY !LUV

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Hello.

Thank you for coming to Discord to explain.

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Cordial greetings team. I must respectfully state that my writing is of my own production, my writing is oriented to the lyrical style, you can visualize it. I have used artificial intelligence in some publications to generate images only, but not for my writings. I am dismayed by this notification. If there is one thing I have considered and stand for it is original production.

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