Ladies of Hive Community Contest #219 •||• My perception of marriage and my plans for 2025 💫💫💫

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Bienvenidos a mi blog

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Welcome once again to my blog, as always it is a pleasure to have you here in this space, this time I join once again in this community to answer the two questions generated. Each week the ladies community brings us a unique and varied content where we can do and talk about the proposed, always looking at a positive point of the ladies, these questions are generated by incredible women of the ecosystem, it is therefore nice to respond with the same gratitude I hope you like it!



Bienvenidos una vez más a mi blog, como siempre es un placer tenerlos por aquí en este espacio, en esta oportunidad me uno una vez más en esta comunidad para dar respuesta a las dos preguntas generadas. Cada semana la comunidad de damas nos trae un contenido único y variado en donde podemos hacer y hablar de lo propuesto, siempre mirando un punto positivo de las damas, estas preguntas son generadas por increíbles mujeres del ecosistema, es por eso agradable responder con la misma gratitud ¡Espero les guste!



Ladies of Hive Community Contest #217

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1️⃣ Marriage is a universal tradition, yet its celebration reflects the unique values, customs and traditions of each culture. What are the most significant traditions, customs and practices that define wedding ceremonies in your culture? How do they embody the heritage and beliefs of your community?

1️⃣ El matrimonio es una tradición universal, sin embargo, su celebración refleja los valores, costumbres y tradiciones únicos de cada cultura. ¿Cuáles son las tradiciones, costumbres y prácticas más significativas que definen las ceremonias de boda en su cultura? ¿Cómo encarnan el patrimonio y las creencias de su comunidad?


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In Venezuela it is very popular to see couples getting married either by church or by civil ceremony, but in the same way it is a marriage, for many years this belief has come from generation to generation since it is a way to symbolize love, although nowadays many couples choose not to do it, but from my point of view I consider it is a very nice union, In fact I have come with this culture through my family, for example my mother is my most precious symbol in marriage, she married my father by civil and church, in a luxury wedding, so to speak for that time, my mother enjoyed club, dress, bridesmaids and even honeymoon, today they have been married for 37 years. In Venezuela this tradition is natural, but many are known to be popular, one of these traditions is that you must ask for the hand of their parents, although now they do it without that permission only enough with the acceptance of both, also that brides should go in white, although I differ in that, but it is something that has been maintained over time, also that brides wear bouquet and that they wear veils, but that has also been discontinued, but in my culture marriage is something basic for me and nothing out of the ordinary, although we can not leave out the tradition that the groom can not see the bride's dress before marriage.

Personally I have always dreamed of a wedding, in fact, I was engaged and many things I had in mind and already materialized, but things happened that I will tell you later, but the important thing is that everything happened on time and was not realized, in fact on the cover of the publication is my best friend with a wedding dress, which was the one I was going to use, but things happened as I said and I ended up giving my best friend this dress for her wedding, today they have been married for 7 years. I believe a lot in marriage, it is one of the 7 sacraments that must be fulfilled in the catholic religion and where I visualize myself, in fact it is the only one I have to fulfill, but I feel that I will not fulfill it, and not because I don't want to, I just have a different ideology from the rest since I have always said that we should get married at an average age and without children since it is said that we should arrive pure and chaste to the altar, although that is not fulfilled, also because I feel that my age and my life are no longer for those disturbances, just to be in peace, I feel that my dream was with my lived experience.


En Venezuela es muy popular ver a las parejas casarse ya sea por iglesia o por civil, pero de igual modo es un casamiento, desde hace muchos años esta creencia ha venido de generación en generación ya que es una forma de simbolizar el amor, aunque actualmente muchas parejas optan por no hacerlo, pero desde mi punto de vista considero que es una unión muy linda, de hecho he venido con esta cultura a través de mi familia, por ejemplo mi madre es mi símbolo más preciado en matrimonio, ella se casó con mi padre por civil y por iglesia, en una boda de lujo, por así decirlo para aquella época, mi madre gozo de club, vestido, damas de honor y hasta luna de miel, hoy en día llevan 37 años de casados. En Venezuela esta tradición es natural, pero se conocen muchas que son populares, una de estas tradiciones es que se debe pedir la mano a sus padres, aunque ahorita lo hacen sin ese permiso solo basta con la aceptación de ambos, también que las novias deben de ir de blanco, aunque yo difiero en eso, pero es algo que se ha mantenido por el tiempo, también que las novias lleven buqué y que las mismas lleven velo, pero eso también se ha dejado de usar, pero en mi cultura el matrimonio es algo básico para mí y nada fuera de lo común, aunque no podemos dejar por fuera la tradición de que el novio no puede ver el vestido de la novia ante de casamiento.


En lo personal siempre he soñado con una boda, de hecho, estuve comprometida y muchas cosas tenía en mente y ya materializadas, pero sucedieron cosas que luego más adelante les sabre contar, pero lo importante es que todo paso a tiempo y no se realizó, de hecho en la portada de la publicación sale mi mejor amiga con un vestido de novia, el cual era el que iba a usar, pero sucedieron cosas como bien dije y termine dando a mi mejor amiga este vestido para su casamiento, hoy en día llevan 7 años de casada. En el matrimonio creo mucho, es uno de los 7 sacramentos que se deben cumplir en la religión católica y en donde me visualice, de hecho es el único que me falta por cumplir, pero siento que no lo voy a cumplir, y no por no querer, solo que tengo una ideología diferente del resto ya que siempre he dicho que debemos casarnos a una edad promedio y sin hijos ya que se dice que debemos llegar pura y casta al altar, aunque eso no se cumple, también porque siento que mi edad y mi vida ya no están para esos alborotos, solo estar en paz, siento que mi sueño se fueron con mi experiencia vivida.


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2️⃣ What is the most important thing you are looking to achieve in 2025?

2️⃣ ¿Qué es lo más importante que buscas alcanzar en 2025?

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Although currently I am a person who does not like to share his plans much, I think I'll tell you something that I want for my 2025, apart from health, money, love, peace and tranquility, but I would like to have my second child to complete my family with my partner and my oldest son who this year turns 8 years old, so this year I hope it will be prosperous for the family.

See you soon, a hug.


Aunque actualmente soy una persona que no le gusta compartir mucho sus planes, creo que les adelanto algo que quiero para mí 2025, aparte de salud, dinero, amor, paz y tranquilidad, pero quisiera poder tener mi segundo hijo para completar mi familia al lado de mi pareja y mi hijo mayor que este año cumple sus 8 años, así que este año espero sea prospero para la familia.

Nos vemos pronto, un abrazo. 



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Gracias a todos los que me leen, los que participan en todo lo que hace la plataforma, aquellos que ayudan al fortalecimiento y crecimiento de la comunidad, gracias totales a quienes hacen vida en Hive, aquellos que recién llegan y a todos los que estamos aquí desde hace tiempo. Gracias a todos por su receptividad, por su amor y comprensión.






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Todo el contenido que se encuentra en esta publicación es amplia-mente original del autor, cualquier duda y recopilación del mismo, deben hacer mención de mi persona.



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Hello my friend, I believe that marriage, more than a tradition, is a decision that we make when we are ready, although many times we can go through life with someone without having to sign a paper, with love, respect and commitment from both parties it is enough. I thought it was a beautiful gesture, giving your dress to your best friend. I hope you can fulfill your wish for this 2025. Blessings to you and your family. 🙏

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It is very nice the gift of the dress to your best friend, I think that marriage, especially in church, is a symbol of Blessing for that union and no matter the age, as long as the couple wants to do it, I wish that this year that begins you can make all your dreams come true, thanks for sharing,
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So you are planning to have a second child this year. That's a nice plan. My husbannd also wants to have another child for some time but only God knows when it is going to happen.

Thanks for sharing about your customs and goals

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