LOH contest #202 LET’S TALK ABOUT IT
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Be it in a romantic relationship or just a platonic one, communication plays a huge role on how far the relationship will go for.
We are all different people, it is next to impossible to find two people who love and and hate same thing, for a relationship to grow and face the taste of time everyone has to lay out his like and dislike, this can only be done with communication.
Communication is not just talking and putting it out there communication involves two or more individuals who are willing to listen, for someone to communicate there have to be someone willing to listen, and for them to have communicated they must reach an understanding.
I can count my friends all in one hand, why is that? because of lack of communication, sense of Entitlement pride all this full down to lack of communication. I grow up to realize as much as relationships should be garbage in garbage out in a good way not everyone we meet known how to return feeling, Everyone of have that one thing that can lighten up our mood even in the worst days.
I have been in relationship that just went cold and ended without words.
Ran into an old friend couple of month back we used to be cool and for no reason we went cold and didn’t talk till the last time we met, we have had each others number but for a while the conversation has been ether okay or lol, we resumed conversation that night and I got to realize how poorly I communicate, and believe me working on it has never felt better.
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It is very true, being willing to listen to the other person is necessary to communicate in the best way, !LADY
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☺️ thanks for reading
Listening is crucial in order to create understanding.
The story you mentioned about your friend. Did you try to communicate with that friend better in the future? Was it just you who was cold or she/he was also the same? Did anything make difference later?
I was the cold one, yes there is difference now
Good to know that it improved
I have the same problem, but I started working on it first with my friend @tengolotodo who always tries (despite my resistance) to get me to talk. It’s not always easy communicating one’s feeling. The first is always the fear of judgement
I do wonder why sometimes 🤣
What are you wondering? lol
lol oh you have me laughing, why I persist you dope
Ha!
Yeah, communication is hard and many times we realize that things that happen could have been avoided if we just communicated about it. I hope you get better at it, dear. Slowly and with intentionality, you'll get there.🌺
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