THE BITTER TRUTH

On many occasions I thought I was doing the right thing not knowing I was only ignorant and arrogant because it always ended up with me being shouted at or beaten, always? No not really always but most of the time. If you remember I wrote one time in one of my post that I vowed that if I don't become a lawyer/read law I'm not going to the university neither am I doing anything in this life outside law ( here am I doing mass communication 😜). I told someone in my secondary school days that I prefer you flogging me that shouting or yell at me just because you want to correct me, I easily get emotional with words and the person used it against me 😂. What am I saying the truth is bitter but it still has to be said.

In our present day society nobody really wants to hear the truth they just want to hear what is pleasing to their ear and aligns with their opinions and perspectives that's truth to them they don't need any other explanations. Like the saying goes:

This object can be black but we see what we want to see it as.

That's humans for you. Like I said before, I prefer you flogging me to you shouting at me. One particular day I did something wrong and my babe although calmly he told me something that pricked my heart, it was the truth but still my mind refused to acknowledge the fact that I did wrong and that was the truth I had to struggle for a long until I finally agreed with the fact that he was right but the truth was bitter.

MY ELDER SISTER

My elder sister 😞 she is this blunt kind of a person she has a blunt personality she will tell you the way it is without blinking twice, there was a day she told me that me wanting to read law is because of my arrogance abd not because I wanted to advocate for others. I did something bad one time that I am not ready to disclose and she sat me down and spoke her mind without blinking. It felt as if a sword drove into my heart and pierced my heart but that was also the bitter truth.

MY ELDER BROTHER

I had a fight with him and he became angry we were both angry and I said many bad things before he could make a statement I had made ten statements and he said something;

With this your anyhow character no man will marry you.

I felt it and the anger in me died immediately I was hurt and teary, he's right and wrong at the same time cause no one would want to marry a wife that is not submissive that has a character like mine and that stayed in my heart till this day I try as much as possible to be well behaved ( so I can get a good man to marry😜).
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