THIRTY YEARS AGO

Parenting is a huge and hectic job if I must say, especially with kids between the age of 0- 5 years of age, and after that you can rest a bit not totally because the greater job is when you are a parent to teens and young adults, phew this stage is something else. I call it the rebellion stage, this is the stage where you would ask a child to sit and the child would be like “why?” I'm not saying asking why is bad,but of course they need to know why you are asking them to do a particular thing or job, but even after explaining to them you still get a “NO” from them. I'm not a mother. I have never been a mother but I have been in my rebellious and reckless stage of life.

Now, parenting of thirty years ago and parenting of now is not the same in fact there is a big contrasting gap between parenting of thirty years ago and now. Let me use myself as an example, I grew up knowing that if my mum winks her eyes when I'm playing rough that means I should stop it or it may also mean I should go inside, growing up my parents never really shouted much eyes and body language can do the work although it's not always successful because we might want to at some point be rebels but it works in most cases

Recently I watched a reel online where the mom was communicating with her grown daughter with body language. On the same internet I watched where a child asked her mother if she had issues with her eyes just because she was trying to communicate by winking. So I would say what work for parents of thirty years ago might not or will not work for kids of recent days, because we are evolving and things are changing. Then days it was basically this neighborhood friendship and all that there was intrapersonal communication but now it's everybody to your gadget, so wanting to bring up a child with the techniques of the then days might not work, but that does not mean we should do a very bad job at parenting. No it would not be accepted.
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