Ways to show myself as a mother that I am valuable and unique #185

Hello beautiful #ladiesofhive
it is always nice to be here because your topics for weekly contest is always so inspiring.
Alot of ladies wouldn't want to miss out on it,and am one of them that's why am here
to celebrate myself as a mother and also to write on how to show myself how valuable I am.
I am also of the opinion that mother's should be celebrated everyday because some mothers truly deserves to be celebrated.
Motherhood is hard work,it is taskful and therefore appreciation would be a great source of strength to mothers.

These are somethings i do to value myself as a mother.

- I gift myself: No matter how small the gift may be i get myself a little gift to to show myself some appreciations and self love because i deserve it,i believe when you learn to celebrate yourself as a mother,your kids grows up to do the same for you.

-I take nice pictures: I know ladies loves pictures but sometimes during motherhood all you can ever think of is your kids.but once in a while i take nice pictures for great and lasting memories.

- I choose positive and supportive friends : I get intentional about who my friends are because when hanging out with them they will surely generate some energy.And a positive energy is all i need.

- I dress up:
Once in a while i consciously make myself a priority,I dress up to look good.
looking good brings me comfort and confidence.

-I believe in myself, : I live above people's negative opinions of me.

- I forgive myself. Especially for the things i couldn't control, i let go of the things i can't change and the guilt that comes from the things i couldn't do.

- I practice self-care: mothers hardly have time to take care of themselves
In my busy schedule,i remind myself that I deserve the best
I intentionally rest,i pamper myself
by engaging in things that makes me happy and fulfilling.
example i watch movies,get a nice hair style,eat some nice fried chicken,take alot of water and i rest.

- I protect my peace:I choose what and who is important to me.
I commit to it or to them, i refuse to be drain by negative energy and people that comes with it

- I practice words of affirmation i practice words of affirmation to boost my self esteem i consciously tell myself that i am more than enough and i am good enough.
Thank you for reading .
Thank you ladies for your time .