Advice to Ladies: Become a strong woman

What would you like to say to young women today, what advice would you give them?

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During the Medieval times, women were seen as second-class citizens, men saw them as weak, naive, incompetent, and inferior, decisions were made for them by men, and all forms of power were withheld from them. All these are used in the word sexism.

Sexism means biases against a particular person or group. And this results from intuitive judgments and pure generalization. A kind of myth as I can call it. it is. This is what they call gender discrimination or determinism. it believes that women are supposed to be the housekeepers and to raise a family. and men are to be the sensible ones.

But the present time is different, the narratives have changed, the strength of the bias has weakened over time in both social and professional domains, and the representation of women has changed over time.

Ladies need to rise up make use of the changing narrative and become strong women. And who is a strong woman? That a woman that has a strong conviction about herself knows who she is, and stands up for who she is.

Society is a big place, but only men are known to be dominant when it comes to power, women can also cling to it.

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I am talking about power because I guess that's the most difficult thing to acquire. Personally, if I'm going to advise ladies, do not let anything or anyone make you feel like you're a woman. Stop at nothing to make sure you're great, socially and professionally and you can do this in the following ways.

1. Define your success: Your definition of success could be money, a good career, or anything promising. Once you can define what you want to become then you're working towards becoming a strong woman.

2. Set your goals: Goal setting is something that gives you direction on what to do and makes you plan your actions and develop them, that is, know your current position, what position you want to be and how to get there.

3. Be determined: Being determined is making sure you commit everything to make sure your set goals are achieved and don't give way to distractions.

4. Keep good relationships: Some relationships pave the way and some bring set back. You need to identify a good relationship from a bad one. Also, you must socialize, socialization is live. In sociology, they say, "No human being can live in isolation" We have to socialize but in the right way.

5. Keep learning: There will be down moments for everyone at some point or the other, things that happens to us in terms of failure shouldn't bring us down, but we should learn from it and transform it into our strength, the sky is always the beginning from everybody if we identify our strength and make very good use of it.

I'd really love to keep going, but my too many write-up maybe boring you. But in a nutshell, ladies should always see themselves as being very strong and achieving whatever they so desire, they shouldn't subject themselves to gender discrimination and the weaker vessels they tag them to be.

I hope you'll find this little write-up interesting and not boring to you. Thanks for reading.