LOH COMMUNITY CONTEST #173: Difficult decisions
Saludos damas de Hive.
En esta semana las dos preguntas me rondan en la cabeza que nos plantea @jane1289 y sin saber hacia donde debo dirigir mi inquietud, eso me pasa cuando los temas no me han sucedido o simplemente no los he pensado directamente.
Les comparto el post con las reglas del reto: LOH COMMUNITY CONTEST #173
Seguimos en verdad con el tema del amor, es algo que nos llena cada espacio de nuestras vidas a diario y de diferente formas. Hay decisiones que a veces tomamos sin pensarlas mucho, simplemente enamoradas no vemos para ningún otro lado, nos enfrascamos en que eso es lo que queremos y más nada.
1.- El mes del amor sigue en el aire. Como mujer, ¿qué considera más? ¿Las decisiones cuidadosas sobre a quién amar o la libertad de ser espontánea al respecto? ¿Le importan más los momentos presentes o los resultados futuros de sus decisiones? ¿Por qué?
Cuando se esta enamorada no se toman las mejores decisiones. Muchas veces aunque vemos las señales allí de maltrato a las mujeres de la familia, no te detienes y solo piensas eso no me va a suceder a mi. No crees que podrás ser una victima más de esas experiencias que estas observando. Todo porque estas enamorada y tu carácter es muy dulce y nadie te levantaría la voz.
El resultado final nunca termina bien, cuando no se toman buenas decisiones. Los momentos pasados muchas veces nos pesan, pero logramos superarlo con el amor de los hijos.
Tengo que vivir el presente y convivir con las decisiones que uno toma en el camino, más que todo por continuar y llevar a los hijos hacia el futuro.
Nos sentimos tristes por esas decisiones, sin saber si elegimos la correcta para el futuro. Pero deseamos que haya sido la mejor, continuar sola criando los hijos. Nos volvemos valientes y sacamos una fuerza interior para ser padre y madre y aunque resulta agotador, cuando pasan los años y los vemos avanzando en la vida, nos alegramos mucho.
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Greetings Hive ladies.
This week the two questions that @jane1289 asks us are going through my head and without knowing where I should direct my concern, that happens to me when the topics have not happened to me or I simply have not thought about them directly.
I share the post with the rules of the challenge: LOH COMMUNITY CONTEST #173
We truly continue with the theme of love, it is something that fills every space of our lives daily and in different ways. There are decisions that sometimes we make without thinking much about them, simply being in love we don't look anywhere else, we get caught up in the fact that that is what we want and nothing more.
1.-The month of love is still in the air. As a lady, what do you consider more: Careful decisions about whom to love, or the freedom to be spontaneous about it? Do you care more about present moments or future results of your decisions? Why?
When you are in love you don't make the best decisions. Many times, even though we see the signs of mistreatment of the women in the family, you don't stop and just think, that's not going to happen to me. You don't think you can be another victim of those experiences you are observing. All because you are in love and your character is very sweet and no one would raise their voice at you.
The end result never ends well when good decisions are not made. The past moments often weigh us down, but we manage to overcome it with the love of our children.
I have to live in the present and live with the decisions one makes along the way, more than anything to continue and take the children into the future.
We feel sad about those decisions, not knowing if we chose the right one for the future. But we hope it was the best, to continue raising the children alone. We become brave and we draw inner strength to be a father and mother and although it is exhausting, when the years go by and we see them advancing in life, we are very happy.
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There isn't perfect love so we tend to make mistakes when clouded by feelings...yes you're right to just live in the present moments...whatever mistakes happened in the past, or possible mistakes in the future can be resolved when things fall into the right place. We just need not to lose hope.. Even storms pass by. It isn't permanent ☺️
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That's true, storms pass and time helps to overcome them. We have made mistakes throughout our lives and when choosing the love of our lives, our minds simply become cloudy. Thank you very much for the support. A hug @jane1289
Eso es verdad las tormentas pasan y el tiempo ayuda a superarlas. Hemos cometido errores a los largos de la vida y al elegir el amor de nuestras vidas, simplemente se nos nubla la mente. muchísimas gracias por el apoyo. Un abrazo.
Living in the present is a good choice, we can never change what has happen in the last but we can always make our future better.
We agree on that point, we can no longer change the past, we have to continue building our future. Thank you very much a hug