Absence of parents

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Parents are a great blessing but some children's parents are busy with their own life activities and these children have different effects because their parents do not talk about their activities and the child does not get the admiration he deserves.

In our country, most of the children's fathers go abroad to earn a living and in this way the relationship between the father and the child is weakened and the child misses his father where he needs his father and many children start hating their father in such a situation because when they see their friends with their father, they miss their father.

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When either parent is absent from a child's life, the child feels deprived because a mother can never replace a father and a father can never replace a mother. A friend of mine's father had passed away and his mother gave him a lot of encouragement but he had to take care of things outside himself and he had to shoulder all the responsibilities at a young age and in such a situation children miss their parents a lot and more vulnerable children get depressed.

I have also seen situations where some children's mothers are sick and unable to focus on their child's education, due to which the children become spoiled and become distant from their parents because their father is out of the house all day to earn. Children in such a situation get involved in wrongdoing and they adopt other wrongdoings to get happiness.

Some children are intelligent that's why their parents don't pay much attention to them because they know that their child will do better but the child feels that his parents didn't come to school to know the condition of their children in education like other parents. I would like to give my example in this case when I got 1st position in 6th class my parents didn't appreciate me much which I was expecting which made me sad and I lost focus on studies.

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In all these situations, I am not saying that parents do not love their children and they want them to see their children happy, but they get caught up in their life's tasks and problems, due to which they cannot focus on their child's education and training properly, and in such a situation, children feel the deprivation of their parents. When they see other children playing different games with their parents at home and they go for outings with their parents to different places, when a child does not have such beautiful moments, he becomes very irritable and depressed.

The most important thing that is becoming very common in our society is that parents have very weak relationship due to which children are affected badly and when they see bad behavior of their parents, their heart loses love and their behavior changes. In such a case, the child cannot follow the orders of either one and while both father and mother want their child to follow their orders, the child becomes very confused. Divorce among many parents makes the children have to choose one and it is a very difficult condition to choose one and lose the love of the other.

I think every parents, no matter how busy they are in their life, should make time for their children and appreciate their work so that they can be motivated and move forward in life. If you spend some time with your children every day, then children do not suffer from deprivation.

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