Sharing expenses as a couple is correct or not / Contest 145 [ESP][ENG]


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Compartir gastos en pareja es correcto o no / Contest 145


Hola Hola

Una vez más aquí en Ladies of Hive, como ya he dicho antes, es una de las iniciativas que más me gusta hacer. Hable de compartir el dinero en pareja, aunque yo no tengo pareja con quien compartir

Cuando tuve pareja, compartíamos los gastos, nunca tuvimos que decir o hacer cosas por obligación, aunque en un momento tuve que educar a mi pareja en ese momento, no fue algo que nos afectara como pareja.


Sabíamos que como pareja debíamos compartir gastos, sobretodo cuanto teníamos un bebé por venir y una familia que mantener. Al principio yo trabajaba pero al nacer el bebé no me pagaron los meses que yo estuve por fuera.

Fue cuando mi pareja en ese momento, se encargó de todos los gastos, lo bueno es que no pagamos casa ni servicios, al menos. Así que de igual manera ambos nos aadaptamos a convivir con lo que teníamos.


Luego, comencé yo a trabajar en otra empresa y era yo quién aportaba más al hogar, cosa que tampoco importó. Todos teníamos lo que necesitabamos, sobretodo el bebé (César).

Entonces, respondiendo a la pregunta que nos hacen en esta iniciativa, la cual es:


Comparta sus pensamientos sobre las mujeres y sus finanzas en una relación o matrimonio, ¿es o no es correcto compartir los detalles de sus finanzas con su cónyuge?


Les digo que es un total SI, si es correcto e importante compartir las finanzas con la pareja, dado que nunca se sabe cuándo se va a necesitar que alguno de los dos sea la cabeza de casa.

Que alguno de los dos, sepa ingresar en la cuenta del otro, porque un día puede tener uno y al otro dia el otro. Las personas que lo hacen, las aplaudo y las que no, les informo que mañana pasa algo y no van a tener idea de como ayudar económicamente a esa persona de necesitar ingresar a sus cuentas.


Para eso se necesita respeto por lo que se reúne en pareja, el respetar los deseos de los demás, como por ejemplo, comer, beber o comprar algo que se salga del presupuesto, sin abusar del costo.

Asi que un total apoyo a quién sí comparte sus finanzas con su pareja.

¿Y tú? ¿Lo compartes?


English


Sharing expenses as a couple is correct or not / Contest 145


Hello hello

Once again here at Ladies of Hive, as I have said before, it is one of the initiatives that I like to do the most. Talk about sharing money as a couple, even though I don't have a partner to share it with

When I had a partner, we shared the expenses, we never had to say or do things out of obligation, although at one point I had to educate my partner at that time, it was not something that affected us as a couple.


We knew that as a couple we had to share expenses, especially when we had a baby to come and a family to support. At first I worked but when the baby was born they didn't pay me for the months that I was away.

It was when my partner at that time took care of all the expenses, the good thing is that we did not pay for the house or services, at least. So in the same way we both adapted to live with what we had.


Later, I started working in another company and I was the one who contributed the most to the home, which didn't matter either. We all had what we needed, especially the baby (César).

So, responding to the question that we are asked in this initiative, which is:


Share your thoughts on women and their finances in a relationship or marriage, is it okay or not to share the details of your finances with your spouse?


I tell them that it is a total YES, if it is correct and important to share finances with the couple, since you never know when one of the two is going to need to be the head of the house.

That one of the two knows how to enter the other's account, because one day they can have one and the next day the other. I applaud the people who do it and those who don't, I inform them that something happens tomorrow and they will have no idea how to help that person financially if they need to access their accounts.


For that, respect is needed for what meets as a couple, respecting the wishes of others, such as eating, drinking or buying something that is out of budget, without abusing the cost.

So total support for those who do share their finances with their partner.

And you? Do you share it?


Soy Ana Fuentes💜💜


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Respect and transparency in all terms are key points in keeping a relationship. For me also, it is totally fine.😊

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Well shared, points clear... It is even cooler that you taught your partner how to handle finances together.

Thanks for participating sis.

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