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Greetings Hivers and friends of HiveGhana . Hope we are all having a productive week. And I wish to welcome everyone to my this weeks prompt blog.

Money And Love , Or Other Factors ?

Love ❤️ is a very strong 💪 word and an emotion we feel when we are committed to something so genuine. Love ❤️ is what have kept the world 🌎 as one . It connects us to so many things when talking about it. Things like music, football, movies, etc.

Even here on Hive, Love ❤️ is what is bonding all of us together through every understanding we have and still building through more.

And in marriage for me love should be considered first before money 💰. Unless there is a strong bond of love between two couples, every marriage will always have a problem even with lots of money.

1️⃣ # SOCIAL MEDIA ERA:

We could say that things in this recent times has changed entirely everything that life has given to us to enjoy because of the Jet Age, Computer 🖥 and social media era. These things has contributed to why many people go beyond considering to acquire just the basics necessities of life because of what we see and read. These informations that comes through online poses so many danger, while we could still see those that are at our advantages, majority of these online influences has definitely hinders and contributed to how we see things now.

Although money they say answers all things but in most cases we see ourselves stocked in certain problems we can’t solve in marriage even with our money. This is because there are needs and there are wants. And getting married at the right time we should see as a need not a want.

2️⃣ # COMPATIBILITY:

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Many of us during this recent times has the belief that we must be rich, having the purchasing power to solve all that we want before going into marriage, also believing that with money 💰 they will get the best of a wife, forgetting that when money is presented first in a marriage, we may end up making the wrong choice of a wife or a husband. This is so because for two individuals who do not know themselves prior to marriage to live together, they must be compatible. Compatibility of two individuals in a marriage is what makes most marriages work and last. But because we want to make money first to enable us establish, build a house, own a car, the tendency to really see a truly loving 🥰 person to marry when we have gotten all these wants might become a very big problem .

3️⃣ # GENUINE RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE:

The bible said two is better than one that their LABOUR will not be in vain . And this word has existed for many throughout their marriages. When two people comes together in Love 🥰 to unit into marriage, they are made one not only as husband and wife, but also in blessings, abundance, prosperity, through the labour of their hands. This means that both man 👨 and woman 👩🏻 will work towards achieving every of their goals and objectives . A woman is there to support the man.

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Marriage is meant for the two people not just for the man. So a man is not suppose to wait until he becomes a millionaire to get married. This instance has made many marriages to fail whereby the man becomes the head of the house not allowing the woman to work thereby putting all her education and experiences to a halt. And to so many women, this is not what they want. Its also a considerable factor for couples while considering marriage to make sure each an everyone of them has a means of livelihood whereby its either an office work, a business or a profession. These aspects of consideration is very important and vital.

And finally , when we have the belief to make money to solve and establish all we need before getting married, we keep growing older which makes many of us to start bearing children at a very old age hindering ourselves to labour into old age.

I hope this publish will inspire as many that reads through it.

Thank you for stopping and reading through to the end. Lots of love 💕. Enjoy your weekend friends.