Happy weekend ladies ❤️. Hope we are enjoying ourselves alongside our loved 🥰 ones.

Am excited to be participating in this week’s contest because it has been tight with work for few weeks now. And my take coming from the first question:

1️⃣ Sometimes the truth can be hard to process in various circumstances. Tell us about a truth in your life that you will rather ignore forever if possible.

Truth is what most of us try to shy away from even when we sometimes see it clearly staring at us . This is usually what we term white when it is black. And no matter how hard we try to hide from it, it will come back to us in one way or other.

The truth about life is that we sometimes forget that its not how we see things in ourselves that its for others. I usually always use to blame people when they make mistakes in life especially those kind of mistakes that leads to failure. Then I was still in school though and as a youth never know what people go through with struggles.

Then as time went by and I found myself in adulthood, I begin to see life differently, having gone through some experiences that made me see things the other way round because my mother use tell us while growing up that it takes lots of effort in life to achieve what we want for ourselves especially if you are not born with a silver spoon. But I will always argue with her saying its only those who are lazy that brings failure to themselves.

I have a friend who love business so much and wanted to establish a cosmetic outlet but does not have enough to start the business. Then she went on to source the money from third party which she got and went on to rent a place. Then on the process she spent most of the fund trying to make it standard and was not able to achieve opening it up, since she will be needing more money 💰. I was so upset with her for not doing a good calculation before starting all furnishing which consumed almost everything. She tried explaining how cost was not stable , as materials keep increasing as work was going on. I still blamed her then.

But as time went by I tried to go into a clothing business which I already made budgeting on, but starting the process and moving into various other unforeseen circumstances, it became became very difficult for me to be able to set it up with what my initial budgeting was. I started blaming myself and remembered when others made the same mistakes that I blamed them.

We should always know that the truth will come back to us know matter how we shy away from it. I learnt to stop blaming others because I have come to understand that its not how we see things they tend to be.

Thanks for reading friends ❤️❤️.

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