Qc weekly contest #88: Punishment is just a short term solution

Good day all and welcome to my blog. I am a teacher by profession and based on my teaching experience, I believe the most effective way to encourage someone to do something is through positive reinforcement and rewards rather than punishment. Punishing someone for not completing a task often leads to resentment, low self-esteem, and a lack of motivation, which can make the situation worse in the long run.

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Taking my neighbor for example, she has three children and two are in kindergarten and nursery. The one in kindergarten find it difficult to do his home work on his own and he is slow in learning, the woman usually beats him whenever he is doing assignments and using food as punishment for the boy if he doesn't do his home work. She will be like if you don't do this you will not eat, the boy cries and cries. I try telling her the best way to approach the matter but she doesn't listen. Had it been she used the best approach which is praising the child or petting him, I believe the child would adjust instead of repeating the same thing everyday.
I believe that if we approach children with love, patience and understanding, we can work together through any difficulty or barriers.

The same principle applies to adults in various settings, such as the workplace or personal relationships. When employees or loved ones are consistently rewarded or recognized for their efforts and achievements, they are more likely to be motivated and engaged in their tasks. Positive reinforcement creates an environment of trust, respect, and collaboration, which can lead to better outcomes and stronger relationships.

It's true that punishment may provide a short-term solution, but it often fails to address the underlying issues and can damage relationships and self-esteem in the long run. By fostering a positive and supportive environment through rewards and encouragement, we can inspire others to reach their full potential and create a more harmonious and productive society.