RE: Don't Be A Cheetah
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I cheated a lot when I was younger... well in relationships that is. I know it isn't good but I'm gonna be a bad guy and say that I am glad that I did so because I ended up with a lot of...ahem... experience... because of it. I may have thrown away some good opportunities in stable relationships by doing so but I think I would have self-sabotaged them anyway.
I don't live that way now though. That is the weakness of youth and my life is very different now.
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Wow you confessed on blockchain. Even though past actions doesn't necessarily mean you are the same now, which you aren't as you say. How were you able to convince your current relationship that all that was in the past. I'm sure you had to explain this to her right and share about your past relationships. I don't know if it was me I'd probably have a hard time accepting a girl that had a history of cheating and a lot of exs and I think a girl would feel the same way about a guy. So how were you able to ensure that your current relationship now that she doesn't feel insecure or worried that you may cheat on her x.x
I wouldn't confess this information to anyone I was dating now. That would be extremely foolish methinks. Having that information wouldn't benefit them in any way. I know myself and I know that I have changed. I was young and wild and free, now I am more stable and don't want things to change and no longer have the "wandering eye."
O.O but what if they asked you. Hey John what were your past relationships like and how many exs you had. Does that mean you would lie? I mean some people genuinely ask this I think I would be the type to ask this as well lol but maybe its just me I don't know.
I get the yong wild and free part I think many people had that especially more now in this generation since its more accepted than in the past where its like oh u seeing many guys/girls oh you're a "whore" etc. things like that
As for me i think i would consider myself more towards the conservative side so i didn't really run wild and free like u did xD im someone that would get emotionally attached so i couldnt do that crazy stuff.