La relación de madre e hija / LOH#179 [ESP/ENG]
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Saludos Damas de La Colmena, hoy me uno al Concurso #179 con dos preguntas bastantes significativas, pero de la cual solo seleccionaré la primera. Interrogantes propuestas por @merit.ahama; éxitos a todas.
La relación entre una madre y una hija es un vinculo muy bonito que se puede tener o deberíamos tener todos, pues he visto casos cercas donde ambas no comparten esa conexión tan estrecha, sea esto por diversas situaciones que precede a que esto no sea posible.
Ahora bien, está relación es algo dinámica y en constante evolución, pues no va ser las mismas actitudes, las mismas acciones, incluso el mismo físico de una madre cuando su hija es una bebe o una niña (y viceversa) que siendo ya está adolescente o adulta. Son muchos los factores que influyen el como es su afinidad a lo largo de los años, sin embargo, siento que una buena relación entre madre e hija radica en la confianza y apoyo mutuo por parte de ambas o ¿me equivoco?
Por su parte, uno de los momentos más bonitos y significantes que tengo con mi mamá fue con tenia que escoger la carrera universitaria que haría, lo cual no es nada sencillo. En ese entonces, deseaba estudiar diseño integral, pero, al entrar en un sistema de registro donde se introducen las diferentes carreras que posiblemente o queremos estudiar; ese sistema te arroja 3 resultados, donde depende del índice académico o del cupo de la carrera, incluso puedes quedar seleccionado en 1 o todas ellas.
Para ese entonces, fui seleccionada para la carrera de la Licenciatura en Artes Plásticas, y la otra que deseaba en un principio, había que hacer obligatoriamente un censo interno. En eso, mi mamá me aconseja que estudie los dos primeras semestre de esa carrera donde me están dando cupo y luego, si lo deseaba, me cambiara, para que no perdiera esta oportunidad. Dude mucho, estaba triste, mi mamá no me insistió en ningún momento, sino que me decía que cualquier elección estaría bien, mientras estudiara y sacara un título, todo estaba bien.
Luego de meditarlo mucho y analizar los pro y contra de la misma, la cual el mayor problema era que la Universidad donde la dictan queda bastante lejos, en otra ciudad, me decidí por cursar la que salió con cupo. Siendo la mejor decisión, porque aprendí nuevas cosas, aprendí amar el arte, aún con las crisis existenciales que pasaba con la misma, seguí adelante (con el apoyo y regaños de mi madre) hasta obtener mi título.
Lo más divertido de todo es que, actualmente estoy trabajando en cuestiones de diseño, gracias a una prima que me ha estado enseñando, dándome a entender que el tiempo de Dios es perfecto y que lo que es de uno, será así. Y la parte que más lamento, es que mi mamá con Alzheimer no estuvo consciente cuando recibí mi título, sin embargo, agradezco que está todavía a mi lado.
Mi mamá nunca me juzgo por la carrera que elegí, donde muchos padres se quejan porque un artista se muere de hambre, incluso se opuso a mi papá, ya que él no estaba de acuerdo. No obstante, para ella era más importante que tuviera un camino y meta que seguir, que el titulo por muchas veces no sea un peso importante en la vida de uno, que el aprendizaje y las relaciones que uno va forjando en el proceso es lo más valioso que se puede llegar a obtener en la vida.
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Greetings Ladies of La Colmena, today I join the Contest #179 with two quite significant questions, but from which I will only select the first one. Questions proposed by @merit.ahama; successes to all.
The relationship between a mother and a daughter is a very beautiful bond that we can have or we should all have, because I have seen close cases where both do not share such a close connection, whether this is due to various situations that precede that this is not possible.
Now, this relationship is something dynamic and constantly evolving, because it will not be the same attitudes, the same actions, even the same physique of a mother when her daughter is a baby or a child (and vice versa) that when she is already a teenager or adult. There are many factors that influence their affinity over the years, however, I feel that a good relationship between mother and daughter is based on trust and mutual support from both of them, or am I wrong?
On the other hand, one of the most beautiful and significant moments I have with my mother was when I had to choose the college career I would do, which is not easy at all. At that time, I wanted to study integral design, but, when you enter a registration system where you enter the different careers that you can or want to study; that system gives you 3 results, where depending on the academic index or the quota of the career, you can even be selected in 1 or all of them.
At that time, I was selected for the career of Bachelor of Fine Arts, and the other I wanted at first, it was mandatory to make an internal census. At that time, my mother advised me to study the first two semesters of that career where they are giving me a place and then, if I wished, I would change, so that I would not lose this opportunity. I hesitated a lot, I was sad, my mother did not insist at any time, but told me that any choice would be fine, as long as I studied and got a degree, everything was fine.
After meditating a lot and analyzing the pros and cons of it, which the biggest problem was that the university where they dictate it is quite far away, in another city, I decided to take the one that came out with space. Being the best decision, because I learned new things, I learned to love art, even with the existential crises that I went through with it, I went ahead (with the support and nagging of my mother) until I got my degree.
The funniest thing of all is that, I am currently working on design issues, thanks to a cousin who has been teaching me, giving me to understand that God's timing is perfect and that what is one's, will be so. And the part I regret the most, is that my mom with Alzheimer's was not aware when I received my degree, however, I am thankful that she is still by my side.
My mother never judged me for the career I chose, where many parents complain because an artist starves, she even opposed my father, since he did not agree. However, for her it was more important that I had a path and goal to follow, that the title for many times is not an important weight in one's life, that learning and relationships that one is forging in the process is the most valuable thing you can get in life.
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