Life and its different risks. Competition 194/La vida y sus diferentes riesgos. Concurso 194 [ENG/ESP]
Hello dear community of @ladiesofhive this time I wanted to stop by and participate in this new Contest which I find very interesting and I would like to give my opinion to it.
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Let's start talking about risks, in life we live different types of risks, whether emotional, property, loved ones, risks that affect our own health, in short, a variety and some stronger than others, although there are also those that drive us, that merit a change, but in a good way. That is why answering what is the biggest risk you have to take in life for you right now, and what is the least risk you feel around you? I would say that I have two major risks, the first one is losing my mother, we know that in life, just as we live we die, one tries to mentalize and be calm in what fits with it, but in the end it is always easy to say it, but difficult to process it, with her illness we do not know that at some point she will not wake up, sometimes when she sleeps I put my hand on her nose to see that everything is okay.
It is something inevitable, and in some way or another her body is being consumed, but it is a latent risk that her life at some point will be extinguished, even if I try to keep her well and that she does her treatment, in short, I do not know when things can change. And well, as I said at the beginning I have two major risks, the second one, although it is not so strong, but it is something that can happen, but it has its solution in spite of everything is work, sometimes I feel that, with all the economy, the changes that arise and the problem that I am in remote I do not know if I will be without work and I worry about my son and my sick mother, but I know that in spite of everything it is something solvable and that it can be turned around.
On the other hand, minor risks learning how to make desserts would be a good thing, it would help me to improve my work independence, and it is a part of cooking that I like and entertain, although sometimes I am a bit desperate haha and washing the perolero that is left afterwards is what worries me, but seeing how it all turns out in the end it would be a good thing to undertake.
Now, with respect to the question "How do you feel when you are alone responding to your thoughts," it depends on the case, sometimes sad, nostalgic or I just keep thinking how different it would be if that person would listen to me again. It happens to me a lot with my grandmother, many times I ask her if she were here, what would she do, what would she do to help mom, how did she manage to keep a stable house, work, clean, cook, take care of so many children? Actually, even though I remember that they said she had not studied, she was the pillar of the home, and she was able to do many things and always showing her best face, although with a strong character hehe, but she gave her best.
Sometimes I feel that I get bitter about so many things, but I want to be like her or at least have that willpower to do everything and go forward with my head held high, as I would like her to give me advice, to give me a hug and make me feel that everything is going to be okay and that, if I can, I can take good care of my son and I can get everything ahead, her smile and words, I miss her very much.
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Hola querida comunidad de @ladiesofhive en esta oportunidad quise pasar por acá y poder participar en este nuevo Concurso el cual me parece muy interesante y quisiera dar mi opinión a ello.
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Comencemos hablando de riesgos, en la vida se viven diferentes tipos de riesgos, sean emocionales, bienes, seres queridos, riesgos que afecten nuestra propia salud, en definitiva, una variedad y algunos más fuertes que otros, aunque también existen aquellos que nos impulsen, que ameriten un cambio, pero de buena manera. Es por ello que respondiendo a ¿Cuál es el gran riesgo que debes correr en la vida para ti en este momento, y cuál es el menor riesgo que sientes a tu alrededor? Diría que en mayor riesgo tengo dos, el primero el perder a mi mamá, sabemos que, en la vida, así como vivimos morimos, uno trata de mentalizarse y estar tranquilo en lo que cabe con ello, pero a la final siempre es fácil decirlo, pero difícil procesarlo, con su enfermedad no se sabe que en punto ya no despierte, a veces cuando duerme le pongo la mano en la nariz viendo que todo esté bien.
Es algo inevitable, y de alguna u otra manera su cuerpo se va consumiendo, pero es un riesgo latente que su vida en algún punto se apague, aunque trate de mantenerla bien y que haga su tratamiento, en definitiva, no sé cuándo las cosas puedan cambiar. Y bueno como dije al principio tengo dos riesgos mayores, el segundo, aunque no es tan fuerte, pero es algo que puede pasar, pero tiene su solución a pesar de todo es el trabajo, a veces siento que, con toda la economía, los cambios que surgen y la problemática que estoy en remoto no sé si me quede sin trabajo y me preocupa por mi hijo y mi mamá enferma, pero sé que a pesar de todo es algo solucionable y que se le puede dar la vuelta.
Por otro lado, los riesgos menores aprender hacer postres sería algo bueno, me ayudaría a mejorar en mi independencia laboral, y es una parte de cocinar que me gusta y entretiene, aunque a veces soy algo desesperada jaja y lavar el perolero que queda luego es lo que me inquieta, pero al ver como resulta todo al final sería algo bueno emprender.
Ahora bien, con respecto a la pregunta ¿Cómo te sientes cuando estás solo respondiendo a tus pensamientos?, depende del caso a veces triste, nostálgica o simplemente me quedo pensando que diferente seria si esa persona me escuchara de nuevo. Me pasa mucho con mi abuela, muchas veces le pregunto que si estuviera acá ¿Qué haría? ¿Qué haría para ayudar a mamá? ¿cómo hacía para mantener una casa estable, trabajar, limpiar, cocinar, cuidar tantos niños? Realmente a pesar de que recuerdo que decían que no había estudiado, ella fue el pilar del hogar, y pudo hacer muchas cosas y siempre mostrando su mejor cara, aunque con un carácter fuerte jeje, pero daba lo mejor de sí.
A veces siento que yo me amargo por tantas cosas, pero quiero parecerme a ella o al menos tener esa fuerza de voluntad para hacer de todo y seguir adelante con la frente en alto, como me gustaría que me aconsejará, que me diera un abrazo y me hiciera sentir que todo va a estar bien y que, si puedo, que podre cuidar bien a mi hijo y podré sacar todo adelante, su sonrisa y palabras, la extraño mucho.
Muchas gracias por leerlo. Espero sea de su agrado. Cualquier comentario con gusto estaré para responder y si quieren saber más de mi les dejo mis:
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