Ladies of the Beehive Community Contest #192: my facility to make friends!

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Hola hola hermosa damas de la colmena, tengan todas un excelente fin de semana, con la bendicion de Dios Todopoderoso, bienvenidos a mi blog!

Estoy agradecida de poder estar nuevamente por aca para participar en el concurso semanal, ya por la numero 192, propuesta por la amiga @merit.ahama, con 2 preguntas interesantes, de las cuales respondere la primera para mi entrada:

1️⃣ ¿Cuánto significa para ti la amistad? Puedes hacer nuevos amigos con facilidad?

Comenzaré por decir que creo en la amistad, y si, existen los amigos, al contrario de lo que muchas veces se dice por ahí: los amigos no existen!

Un amigo, es muy valioso, pero, es una relación que debe estar fundamentada en valores como. el amor, respeto, tolerancia, fidelidad; que deben ser reciprocos, sin esos valores, no hay una verdadera amistad! por, supuesto la comunicación es esencial!

Una de las cosas que valoro en una amiga es su confidencialidad, si te cuento algo, no debe salir de ti, y viceversa; el estar allí a la hora que te necesiten, no significa verse todos los días, es, saber que verdaderamente cuentas con esa persona en todo momento!

No soy de muchas amigas, si trato literalmente con todos a mi alrededor, pero, tengo claro que, no todos son mis amigos, creo que los puedo contar con los dedos de la mano y, me sobran,jejejej, es que me cuesta confiar en las personas, porque he visto como alguien le cuenta algo a quien considera su amiga, y esta va y lo repite así como si nada, eso me molesta mucho!

La amistad más antigua que tengo es de hace unos 15 años, una muchacha que fue mi alumna, se convirtió en mi mejor amiga (aunque últimamente han pasado cosas, pero, ese es otro tema), a pesar de la diferencia de edad, tenemos mucho en común, una hermana de la iglesia que es mayor que yo, y una compañera de trabajo contemporánea, son las tres que siempre están ahí para mi!

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Hello hello beautiful ladies of the hive, have a great weekend, with the blessing of God Almighty, welcome to my blog!

I am grateful to be here again to participate in the weekly contest, already for the number 192, proposed by the friend @merit.ahama, with 2 interesting questions, of which I will answer the first one for my entry:

1️⃣ How much does friendship mean to you? Can you make new friends easily?

I will start by saying that I believe in friendship, and yes, friends do exist, contrary to what is often said out there: friends do not exist!

A friend is very valuable, but it is a relationship that must be based on values such as love, respect, tolerance, fidelity, which must be reciprocal, without these values, there is no true friendship! of course, communication is essential!

One of the things I value in a friend is her confidentiality, if I tell you something, it should not come out of you, and vice versa; being there when they need you, does not mean seeing each other every day, it means knowing that you truly count on that person at all times!

I don't have many friends, I deal with literally everyone around me, but I am clear that not all of them are my friends, I think I can count them on the fingers of my hand and I have more than enough, it's hard for me to trust people, because I have seen how someone tells something to someone they consider their friend, and they go and repeat it as if it were nothing, that bothers me a lot!

The oldest friendship I have is about 15 years ago, a girl who was my student, became my best friend (although lately things have happened, but that's another topic), despite the age difference, we have a lot in common, a sister from church who is older than me, and a contemporary co-worker, are the three who are always there for me!

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En cuanto a mi facilidad para hacer amigos, debo decirles que se me hace dificil, porque me gusta primero analizar a las personas, y, hasta probar si en ellas se puede confiar, ademas veo que, entre los adultos existe mucha competitividad, y, eso dificulta una amistad; no se, sera por eso que se me hace mas facil tratar con mas jovenes que yo, porque tienen otros intereses.

Este año, por ejemplo, entable una bonita amistad con una joven quinceañera, tenemos mucho en comun, somos de padres cristianos, nos gusta la musica, la matematica, fue mi alumna, excelente por cierto, pero, nacio una amistad de alli, incluso con sus padres, por cierto hace unos dias celebro sus 15 años, y pude com partir con ella!

Esta ha sido mi entrada!

espero te hayas entretenido leyendo!

Dios te bendiga!

As for my facility to make friends, I must tell you that it is difficult for me, because I like to analyze people first, and even test if they can be trusted, also I see that among adults there is a lot of competitiveness, and that makes a friendship difficult; I do not know, maybe that's why it is easier for me to deal with younger people than me, because they have other interests.

This year, for example, I made a beautiful friendship with a young 15 year old girl, we have a lot in common, we are from Christian parents, we like music, mathematics, she was my student, excellent by the way, but, a friendship was born from there, even with her parents, by the way a few days ago she celebrated her 15th birthday, and I was able to share with her!

This has been my entry!

I hope you enjoyed reading it!

God bless you!



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I can relate to how you feel. To find a true friend is to find a treasure, indeed! Thank you for sharing and have a lovely day!

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Thanks to you for visiting me 😊.

Happy night 🙏

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