Eng/Esp contest number #148 educación y diversión,todo en armonía

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Hola amigas,espero que hallan pasado un lindo fin de semana,casualmente este fin de semana compartiendo tiempo de madre e hija,una vez más comenzamos hablando de las responsabilidades y cuidados de madres e hijos y hoy veo este lindo reto.

todas las mujeres y madres,dedicamos el mayor esfuerzo y consagración a la educación y crianza de nuestros niños y niñas,que no importa la edad que tengan al menos en mi caso la sigo viendo así.

Dentro de la educación hablando desde mi experiencia personal,siempre le enseñe que yo siempre la iba acompañar en su vida ,pero que seria ella quien tendría que sacrificarse,para obtener su resultados,por tanto ese sacrificio de las dos seria remunerado por la propia vida.

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ser muy independiente fue lo que mis padres me enseñaron y asi le trasmiti a ella,por tanto asumir sus responsabilidades era algo crucial en la vida de todos ,ser responsable en la vida no significaba que tuviera que mantenerme,sino que ser responsable es conocer los estados y situaciones sobre todo de los padres,la comunicación con ellos velar po su cuidado, pero ser dependiente economicamente de los hijos no es mi principio,ella no escogio venir al mundo ,yo la traje a esta vida para que disfrute de sus penas y alegrias pero no en espera de remuneración alguna.

Por tanto siempre hemos logrado sacar tiempo para el ocio y el bienestar junto,lograr un equilibrio en la vida entre el trabajo y el disfrute a veces es bien difícil pero no por eso se deja de hacer.

La vida es trabajo dolor dificultad,pero es tambien placer alegria ,es solo lograr un equilibrio entre todo,y para mi el mayor disfrute esta en compartir con la familia, me revitaliza porque somos una familia muy grande y todos nos involucramos para liberar el estres del dia a dia,lo mismo compartimos un café,algo hoy en cuba muy dificil de hacer,hasta unas merecidas vacaciones.

Para mi desestresarme es vital porque soy muy apasionada de hacer y hacer,y no me doy cuenta como me voy estresando pero una maldad con mis sobrinos hasta un buen baile toda la noche hace que mis alegrias florescan y el estres desaparezca.

yo asumi el cuidado de mis mayores,no solo el de mi mami que enfermo en estado terminal sino que el de mi abuelita tambien, pero que en la vida uno debe de planificarse según la situación que se viva pero que es importante dedicarse tiempo personal y compartir algunos deberes pero no de forma obligatoria porque siempre me he dicho que el que merece no pide solo dios sabra valorar tu tiempo y tus acciones.

El placer y el disfrute lo encuentro hasta en lo mas minimo que haga siempre que lo haga con amor y alegria aunque sean los mismos deberes de la casa.

Lo que si considero que todo parte de la educación que les debemos a los hijos y el ejemplo que seamos para ellos,porque seremos su reflejo futuro, y compartir deberes y asumir obligaciones son situaciones bien diferentes que cada ser humano debe conocer ,al igual que saber y conocer la importancia de tener un tiempo de esparcimiento para no dejar que el estres diario nos inunde y nos consumamos en depresiones que solo nos lleva a emfermarnos fisico y mentalmente.

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Hello friends, I hope you had a nice weekend, coincidentally this weekend sharing mother and daughter time, once again we started talking about the responsibilities and care of mothers and children and today I see this nice challenge.

All women and mothers, we dedicate the greatest effort and dedication to the education and upbringing of our children, no matter how old they are, at least in my case I still see it that way.

Within education, speaking from my personal experience, I always taught her that I would always accompany her in her life, but that it would be she who would have to sacrifice herself to obtain her results, therefore that sacrifice of both would be paid by her own life.

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to be very independent was what my parents taught me and so I transmitted to her,therefore to assume her responsibilities was something crucial in everyone's life,to be responsible in life did not mean that I had to support myself,but to be responsible is to know the states and situations especially of the parents,the communication with them to watch over their care,but to be economically dependent on the children is not my principle,she did not choose to come to the world,I brought her to this life to enjoy her sorrows and joys but not in expectation of any remuneration.

Therefore, we have always managed to take time for leisure and wellness together, achieving a balance in life between work and enjoyment is sometimes very difficult but that does not stop us from doing it.

Life is work, pain, difficulty, but it is also pleasure, joy, it is just achieving a balance between everything, and for me the greatest enjoyment is in sharing with the family, it revitalizes me because we are a very big family and we all get involved to release the stress of everyday life, we share a coffee, something very difficult to do today in Cuba, even a well-deserved vacation.

For me, de-stressing is vital because I am very passionate about doing and doing, and I don't realize how stressed I get, but a little mischief with my nephews or even a good dance all night long makes my joys bloom and the stress disappear.

I took care of my elders, not only of my mommy who was terminally ill but also of my grandmother, but in life one must plan according to the situation that one lives but it is important to dedicate personal time and share some duties but not in an obligatory way because I have always said to myself that he who deserves does not ask only God will know how to value your time and your actions.

I find pleasure and enjoyment even in the smallest thing I do as long as I do it with love and joy even if it is the same household chores.

What I do consider that everything is part of the education that we owe to our children and the example that we are for them, because we will be their future reflection, and sharing duties and assuming obligations are very different situations that every human being should know, as well as knowing and knowing the importance of having a leisure time to not let the daily stress flood us and consume us in depressions that only leads to physical and mental emfermarnos.
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Indeed, parents bring forth their children to the world and it's their responsibility to care for them without any expectations. Even when the child graduates, shouldering financial responsibilities isn't a smart move. Such child can on her own decide to assist her parents but repaying back is not even possible cos money can't pay the sacrifice parents go through.

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Seeing your big family made me missed my own..we are a big family too..

Indeed, we don't owe our parents, and they don't owe us as well.
If there's something that both should do, is to support each other in whatever they can. It doesn't need to be financial. There are many aspects that the family should work together to maintain harmony and happiness in the family even after the kids graduated or got married.

Thanks for joining !LADY

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