How I Adopted My Friends Traits / LOH Contest #233

People are often fascinated by certain personality traits, style or habits of others and feel inspired to adopt them however despite their admiration, they may find it challenging to incorporate these traits into their own lives. Are there any specific traits or habits you like to adopt them? Have you made efforts to embrace themand so what challenges did you encounter

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Have you any trait that people admired just how i admire this my two beautiful friends on their vibrant and action traits they process they're different people with similar traits

I have many traits i like and admired in people but i can't adopt all with the say no man is an island in one way or the other we need each others traits even that one you hate sometimes it helps you and this is the reason i admire others traits even though i can't adopt all

Definitely there now traits you pocess and i don't and despite how o try to adopt it no way for me hahahaha i think that makes you special in your own way and i too. There's this trait of mine i hates so much usually i used to be a quiet type too quiet that was about transcending to dullness for instance i was supposed to give account something important happening around me and when i was been asked i couldn't give account so unconcerned about relevant things oh it was too bad i was always hiding myself from people due to shyness

And how i changed through adopting two of my friend's traits you see hating your bad side will serve as a tool to your change though is not always easy to adopt a new traits but when you have reasons it helps you adjust in adopting new traits so i started making friends that are vibrant, bold and outspoken without shame to stand for truth just like my friends Ijeoma and Chioma then they will will always be in front and i will follow behind they really helped me a lot as shouting types before you know it they will shout oh Jane what is it who is that person they challenge even elderly they are not afraid of any body and i will say no no no hahaha i don't want trouble it took me time to adopt the two are different people but they act alike i love them so much but sometimes they over reacted and i called them to order going back to quietness and action how i combined both there are times and people you are not supposed to appear quiet before them and to some other people you have to my friends traits has helped me a lot all these years i have known them but i did not allow their trait to completely knock out my quietness because is helping me to be calculative and come out with better options most times than my friends but where action is required there traits is superior to the extent people who knew me will always ask me now is it the Jane i know oh 🤣🤣 oh no is good to be mad sometimes when necessary because some people that's the only language they understand especially in this my country.

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