Hello friends from all over the world!✨, I hope you are well, today I send a very special greeting to all the empowered women with enough self-love, I am going to tell you a very personal story that undoubtedly marked my life for complete but I was responsible for deciding if it was for better or worse.

Marriage is important and a very beautiful act of love as long as it is done consciously and with all the responsibility and commitment in the world to remain loyal mainly to oneself, being a person with good principles and values, it is not only respecting your partner but There is also something called self-respect, every act of love begins with oneself, you cannot offer anything that is not first within you, your beliefs, you cannot be faithful to someone else if you are not faithful to yourself. You can demand nothing that you are not willing to give. Starting here.

At 28 years old I considered that I was already a good age to have my first child. I remember that my younger sister jokingly asked my mother if I was sterile, because the years went by and she never came home with the news. that I was going to be a mother, I even questioned myself, is it true that I am? I graduated from university at a good age, and I was already responsible for myself, I had my job that, even though I live in Venezuela and we know that life here is not easy at the moment, it still did not rob me of the dream of procreate, without looking for it, someone came into my life who motivated and inspired me to have a family, and yes, I admit that he fell in love with me and made me fall in love.

At first everything was going very well, I honestly felt prepared to seek my blessing and surprisingly my partner at that time felt the same, we both worked and were responsible for our lives, we felt good being together, he did not hesitate for a second to take me to her family's house and what do you think happened? She introduced me to her mother's gem, a mother-in-law who didn't mince words in any facet of her life 😂, by telling her that the neighbors loved her very much, but " far away." Not because he was a bad person, because he really isn't (sarcasm), just that, well, his great weakness was his language.

The worst decision I have made in my entire life was to go live at my mother-in-law's house. I was blinded by the desire to have a family and I agreed to take on that change in my life of living with strange people without knowing what I was getting into. the mouth of the wolf, from the moment we lived together, our love simply vanished into the air, it affected in industrial quantities what one day united us to such a point that today not even the memory remains.

I endured a lot of emotional abuse and psychologically it affected me, I was one of those compulsive jealous mothers-in-law who as long as her son stayed at home and did not live his life apart, she was capable of anything and she achieved her goal from so many stories she invented, she managed to separate us. and my partner, out of respect, remained totally mute, unable to defend what was ours, in the end I never knew if it was due to a lack of love for me or (eggs).

Despite everything I was experiencing and the lack that my family made of me every day for being in a toxic and harmful environment for both me and the baby, the one who put on his pants and took the reins of his life was me, Facing the wind, I bravely went out onto the road to seek the clarity of the sun, which means that I chose myself above everyone, that I chose to be a strong woman and I left that place forever and ever, I remembered that I had goals and projects to accomplish, that having a child did not prevent me from stagnating or suffering or enduring anything that did not add to my life, even though I was in love, even with tears of disappointment on my face, with a small heart, I saved myself! , And how well it has gone for me because the best and wisest decision of all is to love primarily yourself❤️ self-love, knowing that to get ahead you don't need a person to be someone in life, and I don't I mean title, social position, or a world full of vanities, but peace of mind, tranquility, no one gives you! It's inside you❤️‍🔥 and that's how I feel, at 33 years old I'm still a single mother without any commitment to a boy and although it may seem crazy, I still believe in love, I learned to take things calmly and pay more attention to him to actions more than words.

I don't regret anything, economically it hasn't been that easy but the only thing impossible is what is not attempted, I keep my work up to date, I am a responsible mother and how nice it is that other people comment that I am a good example when it comes to motherhood, I love to my son with all my heart and that is why I did not allow other people to play with our emotional stability, we do not have everything but day by day I try to give the best of myself and I move forward always opening paths in search of opportunities to be able to offer him the best to my baby, and why not? to myself🔥💯💫👏, without waiting for another person to tell me, every day I remind myself how much I love myself, that I am valuable, that I am brave, dear, and a great woman. My advice for the day is this: maybe you can lose some things but make sure you NEVER LOSE YOURSELF.

Nota: •Contenido Original •Portada diseñada en Canva con • Fotografías de mi galería personal.

Note: •Original Content •Cover designed in Canva with • Photographs from my personal gallery.