RE: Just Say NO! | KISS - Week 106

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I am happy to hear that you have found your voice to say no and the strength to declutter your life, I know it is not as easy as it sounds. My husband wants to buy a van and travel, maybe one day we will do this.

I have the same problem of saying no to people, they always want my help and even if I do not feel like doing it, I help them. Not once have these same people helped me with chores that I want to do, and even though I say I will not help them until they help me with something, the next time they ask, I know I will once again help them. I can not seem to break this unhealthy habit.
Another thing I can not break is buying tea cups at yard sales, I have no place for them and none of my daughters want them but I still buy them, am I sick or what?

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Hello @myjob. Thanks for stopping by and viewing my story. Yes, I found my voice to say "NO" thank goodness. It hurts less as time goes on to refuse others. But it's critical. I'm happier for it after helping others all my life. It's time for me, myself and I to find peace without clutter and burdens of others weighing me down. Also, since I retired, I don't have the funds any longer to loan out to family and friends. I have a steady retirement income and social security. I have to care for myself and my health. Diabetes meds are expensive.

At some point, you won't have room to house any more teacups. I didn't have room for my collectibles. I realized I was becoming a mini hoarder. It's not healthy for my well being or my living space. It's a decision only you can make.

I appreciate your engagement. Take care and have a good rest of your week. Thanks for the Tokens.

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